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Hello All,
I've been reading other threads too but had a question. I have a 7 year old fixed female cat in good health (though just wormed her for tapeworms) who is now driving me crazy. When I first got her I had 3 other cats in a home that I then sold 4 years ago. The other 3 cats went to other homes, then this year another cat came around and I gave to another home. I've mostly worked from home over the years so have been around a lot, and then this year when I had to move yet again, she came on the road with me in a car road trip covering 12K miles and 22 states over a course of 5 months. We are now in a new city, in a dark smaller rental. Finding a nicer rental that allow cats has also been a challenge.
I realize this has been quite a bit of change for her and that has to be unsettling. She also was always an indoor cat but I made the mistake of allowing her outside this year, supervised, for short periods. Now all she does is whine to go out, whine to be near me, act badly to get attention etc etc. I do play with her and give rewards, but her bad behavior is making me anxious and causing me to yell at her at times, which of course makes it worse. She started biting and scratching me when I try to move her off me. It's been mostly her and I for the longest time now but...
Should I give her up? Who would take her now? Thanks in advance for your thoughts..
I've been reading other threads too but had a question. I have a 7 year old fixed female cat in good health (though just wormed her for tapeworms) who is now driving me crazy. When I first got her I had 3 other cats in a home that I then sold 4 years ago. The other 3 cats went to other homes, then this year another cat came around and I gave to another home. I've mostly worked from home over the years so have been around a lot, and then this year when I had to move yet again, she came on the road with me in a car road trip covering 12K miles and 22 states over a course of 5 months. We are now in a new city, in a dark smaller rental. Finding a nicer rental that allow cats has also been a challenge.
I realize this has been quite a bit of change for her and that has to be unsettling. She also was always an indoor cat but I made the mistake of allowing her outside this year, supervised, for short periods. Now all she does is whine to go out, whine to be near me, act badly to get attention etc etc. I do play with her and give rewards, but her bad behavior is making me anxious and causing me to yell at her at times, which of course makes it worse. She started biting and scratching me when I try to move her off me. It's been mostly her and I for the longest time now but...
Should I give her up? Who would take her now? Thanks in advance for your thoughts..
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