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Hi there guys,
My resident cat (Krueger) used to be in somewhat of an abusive relationship with my ex's cat (female cat, older than he was). She would chase him aggressively throughout the house, and it would often lead to him hiding and/or meowing almost obsessively in a high pitched, anxious manner.
Now he has been alone for about 4 months, and I decided to get him a little brother (2-month-old Finn). I live in a small space so the whole "keeping them separate" thing only would work half the time, and since I'm home all week I thought perhaps it would be alright if I keep them mostly out in the same spaces together as long as I'm watching them. I brought him home two days ago, kept them separate the first night, and have been letting them interact while supervised since.
Here is the issue:
My cat has done okay with friend's kittens in the past, and he is generally a very easy-going, friendly cat. However, I am afraid he may have picked up some bad habits from my ex's cat, because he has started to chase the kitten, sometimes in what I THINK is playful, and more recently in a very fast and seemingly aggressive way, tail puffing up, the whole bit. No yowling, no growling, and very minimal hissing (usually on the kitten's part when he gets cornered).
I did catch little Finn chasing him back a few times, and they don't seem to be hurting each other, but I'm afraid that my cat will bully my much smaller little guy. He can play rough sometimes. That being said, he has also spent his entire life up until this point with a guinea pig that he would chase and pounce on (never EVER seriously, always a mock-pounce sort of thing. Never landed on her or hurt her). So my question is: is it okay to let them continue doing this as they are, or should I stop them when Krueger chases him out of a room?
More information:
-They will sleep on the same bed, with or without me, pretty close to each other but not snuggling or touching.
-Finn does have a safe place to hide if he needs to, and he seems to try to play with my bigger boy quite a bit, usually leading to either Krueger running off, hissing, or very rarely giving him a swat. Again, he has yet to be hurt.
-No issue with peeing or marking territories; no food-dish-blocking (though they do eat out of each other's dishes); and very rare growling (almost always from the kitten).
-Krueger DOES tend to either follow the kitten around meowing in a similar, high pitched, sort of concerned or inquisitive, maybe even excessive, meow. What does this mean
My resident cat (Krueger) used to be in somewhat of an abusive relationship with my ex's cat (female cat, older than he was). She would chase him aggressively throughout the house, and it would often lead to him hiding and/or meowing almost obsessively in a high pitched, anxious manner.
Now he has been alone for about 4 months, and I decided to get him a little brother (2-month-old Finn). I live in a small space so the whole "keeping them separate" thing only would work half the time, and since I'm home all week I thought perhaps it would be alright if I keep them mostly out in the same spaces together as long as I'm watching them. I brought him home two days ago, kept them separate the first night, and have been letting them interact while supervised since.
Here is the issue:
My cat has done okay with friend's kittens in the past, and he is generally a very easy-going, friendly cat. However, I am afraid he may have picked up some bad habits from my ex's cat, because he has started to chase the kitten, sometimes in what I THINK is playful, and more recently in a very fast and seemingly aggressive way, tail puffing up, the whole bit. No yowling, no growling, and very minimal hissing (usually on the kitten's part when he gets cornered).
I did catch little Finn chasing him back a few times, and they don't seem to be hurting each other, but I'm afraid that my cat will bully my much smaller little guy. He can play rough sometimes. That being said, he has also spent his entire life up until this point with a guinea pig that he would chase and pounce on (never EVER seriously, always a mock-pounce sort of thing. Never landed on her or hurt her). So my question is: is it okay to let them continue doing this as they are, or should I stop them when Krueger chases him out of a room?
More information:
-They will sleep on the same bed, with or without me, pretty close to each other but not snuggling or touching.
-Finn does have a safe place to hide if he needs to, and he seems to try to play with my bigger boy quite a bit, usually leading to either Krueger running off, hissing, or very rarely giving him a swat. Again, he has yet to be hurt.
-No issue with peeing or marking territories; no food-dish-blocking (though they do eat out of each other's dishes); and very rare growling (almost always from the kitten).
-Krueger DOES tend to either follow the kitten around meowing in a similar, high pitched, sort of concerned or inquisitive, maybe even excessive, meow. What does this mean