I don't usually post on here about my BF because, well, I don't like too. I think I have made a thread about him once in the last couple of years, but I just need to know if I am overreacting. He told me last night that he would text me basically to let me know he was ok. He went to visit friends in another state and I stayed here because I had to work. Anyway, he was out drinking with them because it is apparently the ONLY way to have fun with your friends (this was the 3rd night of drinking for him), and never texted me and now his phone is turned off. I am really worried (again- he did text me the night before to tell me he was ok, but it still worried me because it was 4AM) about the idiot and I think I am going to tell him that I need some time to think about whether or not to stay with him after this. He is almost 30 years old and he can't let me know if he is ok?! Granted, I am extremely depressed right now and could very well be overreacting, but I also just found out that 1 of my friends that I used to work with in WV, was found in a ditch after drinking, had been hit by a car, and is now dead. What do you all think? Guys input definately appreciated, maybe I am missing something here.