I am a stepparent of two and the kids are great. Our problem is with their mother (my husband's ex-wife).
I am new to this site and feel wierd posting new things so quickly but have no where else really that I can go. This woman does so much hateful spitful things to my husband just to hurt his feelings and I am just so upset that he had to drop the kids off by himself because I can't stop crying.
I guess I may be overreacting to everything a little but I can't stand watching her do whatever whenever she pleases when it comes to those boys like my husband doesn't even exist. He has gone through a lot, we both have, for those boys and we love them unconditionally no matter what and she just sees them as a paycheck. She does stuff for her convience not caring how it's affecting the children and I really think she needs to grow up and give us the kids.
I mean she does all this crazy stuff to the kids and allows them to do stuff and then they come here and talk about all this stuff and I know how much it hurts my husband's feelings and after everything she put him through in their marriage I just can't take it and can't see him get upset like he does. He doesn't let on he's upset but you can see that it hurts him and I can't stop crying for both the kids and him. They'd be so much better off with us I just wish we could get them!
I am new to this site and feel wierd posting new things so quickly but have no where else really that I can go. This woman does so much hateful spitful things to my husband just to hurt his feelings and I am just so upset that he had to drop the kids off by himself because I can't stop crying.
I guess I may be overreacting to everything a little but I can't stand watching her do whatever whenever she pleases when it comes to those boys like my husband doesn't even exist. He has gone through a lot, we both have, for those boys and we love them unconditionally no matter what and she just sees them as a paycheck. She does stuff for her convience not caring how it's affecting the children and I really think she needs to grow up and give us the kids.
I mean she does all this crazy stuff to the kids and allows them to do stuff and then they come here and talk about all this stuff and I know how much it hurts my husband's feelings and after everything she put him through in their marriage I just can't take it and can't see him get upset like he does. He doesn't let on he's upset but you can see that it hurts him and I can't stop crying for both the kids and him. They'd be so much better off with us I just wish we could get them!