I have a rather interesting problem. My cat loves children and women, but when my boyfriend, dad, or brother try to touch her, she hisses, swats, and scratches. I don't know why she is doing this. All I know is it started after a rather traumatic visit to the vet (her heart stopped twice during anesthesia). Is there a way I can get her to stop being so mean to men? Or is this just something I will have to learn to deal with?