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Hi guys, first post but long time lurker here.
I was at the vet today to get two of my cats desexed and got really ticked off at being judged for owning four cats in an apartment.
I own two bengals and two mixed breeds.
The consultation went like this:
Vet: how many cats do you own:
me: 4
Vet: how many litter boxes do you have?
Me: 2
Vet: how big is your place?
Me: one bedroom apartment
Vet: you are going to have problems with behavior etc. Please let me know if you have any problems down the line(from the actual conversation I could tell she was asking me to let her know in the future if I no longer want my cats)
Obviously the conversation didn't go word by word with what I wrote. But the entire time I felt as if though the vet firmly believed I will not be able to handle the pressure of owning 4 cats in the future and let some of them go.
This conversation really left me a sour impression of this profession and a small minority of the cat owner community . I've seen the same attitude echoed in bengal cat forums. People being judgemental and thinking other people do not have the capacity to take care of their cats because they either have too many or they are of a breed which are less "behaved". An example of this is bengal owners warning others not to get one because they won't be able to handle the "issues" of owning one.
What these people don't understand is that not everyone is looking for a lap cat. Not everyone thinks cats jumping on the kitchen bench is a problem but rather a unique personality trait. Not everyone only plays with their cat once a week.
My four cats are well bonded, they groom, eat, sleep and play together. I love each of my cats to bits. I spend each day playing 30min with them after I finish work at 5. They get fed the best cat food I can find in this country after countless days spent researching each and every brand . I change their litter boxes at least once a week and scoop daily.
Instead of assuming that I'm incapable of raising my kitties and will let them go, it would be more productive to give me advice on how to make it even better for cats in their existing situation.
I guess it's the same feeling you will get if someon said you are incapable of raising your kids so let them know in the future if you are going to give one of them up.
I've already decided to go bck to my original vet who was understanding rather than being a judgemental prick. Majority of vets either push Hills Science diet or uninformed opinions about cat behavior down your throat.
Rant over. This is my message to vets and the cat owner communities.
I was at the vet today to get two of my cats desexed and got really ticked off at being judged for owning four cats in an apartment.
I own two bengals and two mixed breeds.
The consultation went like this:
Vet: how many cats do you own:
me: 4
Vet: how many litter boxes do you have?
Me: 2
Vet: how big is your place?
Me: one bedroom apartment
Vet: you are going to have problems with behavior etc. Please let me know if you have any problems down the line(from the actual conversation I could tell she was asking me to let her know in the future if I no longer want my cats)
Obviously the conversation didn't go word by word with what I wrote. But the entire time I felt as if though the vet firmly believed I will not be able to handle the pressure of owning 4 cats in the future and let some of them go.
This conversation really left me a sour impression of this profession and a small minority of the cat owner community . I've seen the same attitude echoed in bengal cat forums. People being judgemental and thinking other people do not have the capacity to take care of their cats because they either have too many or they are of a breed which are less "behaved". An example of this is bengal owners warning others not to get one because they won't be able to handle the "issues" of owning one.
What these people don't understand is that not everyone is looking for a lap cat. Not everyone thinks cats jumping on the kitchen bench is a problem but rather a unique personality trait. Not everyone only plays with their cat once a week.
My four cats are well bonded, they groom, eat, sleep and play together. I love each of my cats to bits. I spend each day playing 30min with them after I finish work at 5. They get fed the best cat food I can find in this country after countless days spent researching each and every brand . I change their litter boxes at least once a week and scoop daily.
Instead of assuming that I'm incapable of raising my kitties and will let them go, it would be more productive to give me advice on how to make it even better for cats in their existing situation.
I guess it's the same feeling you will get if someon said you are incapable of raising your kids so let them know in the future if you are going to give one of them up.
I've already decided to go bck to my original vet who was understanding rather than being a judgemental prick. Majority of vets either push Hills Science diet or uninformed opinions about cat behavior down your throat.
Rant over. This is my message to vets and the cat owner communities.