The right one in my sig pic. The only time she was really affectionate at all was while we were picking her up from the adoption center. Ever since she got home she has not enjoyed being held or petted. She would follow me around continually but whenever I would try to pet or pick her up she would either move out of range or look for an escape route. Forget about her jumping up in your lap. Only since yesterday has she enjoyed head scratches and being petted. She's jumped up on me several times today and seems to really enjoy scratches on the neck and face. I'm glad she's coming around.