I adopted a cat a few days ago from a shelter and I have an unusual problem. She is the most affectionate cat I've ever had -- so the problem is that at night she will wake up at ungodly hours and start bumping her head with me and my wife who is more upset really. If we close the door to the bedroom she will meow occasionally and also scratch a little.
I do not like the solutions my SO has proposed such as spraying her with water or spanking her. I absolutely will not let her hit the cat as I believe you shouldn't hit any animal. I'm also not interested in spraying her with water as that's still a negative form of behavior adjustment.
I feel kind of bad because all she's trying to do is show love and be with us (or maybe some cat behavior expert would disagree), but the point is I need a solution that will not be upsetting for the cat.
I do not like the solutions my SO has proposed such as spraying her with water or spanking her. I absolutely will not let her hit the cat as I believe you shouldn't hit any animal. I'm also not interested in spraying her with water as that's still a negative form of behavior adjustment.
I feel kind of bad because all she's trying to do is show love and be with us (or maybe some cat behavior expert would disagree), but the point is I need a solution that will not be upsetting for the cat.