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First of all, congratulations on your accomplishment! It's not easy to lose weight
In no way do I mean to excuse this guy. He made a thoughtless comment, but didn't mean to hurt you personally. It seems as if he is truly embarassed by what he said. There are plenty of people who would not have cared that they hurt someone's feelings. I know he hurt and embarassed you, and I'm sorry
On another note, I also don't think it has anything to do with him being a man (I know it wasn't you who said it was). I've seen both women and men make thoughtless or cruel comments. He's just a person who made a mistake. I'd like to think I've never hurt anyone's feelings, but I doubt that's true. I don't think that many of us can say that we've never said anything that we wish we'd never said.
In no way do I mean to excuse this guy. He made a thoughtless comment, but didn't mean to hurt you personally. It seems as if he is truly embarassed by what he said. There are plenty of people who would not have cared that they hurt someone's feelings. I know he hurt and embarassed you, and I'm sorry
On another note, I also don't think it has anything to do with him being a man (I know it wasn't you who said it was). I've seen both women and men make thoughtless or cruel comments. He's just a person who made a mistake. I'd like to think I've never hurt anyone's feelings, but I doubt that's true. I don't think that many of us can say that we've never said anything that we wish we'd never said.