Most of you know the situation between me and my father... How he was physically abusive and kicked me out of my house when he met Adrian... I haven't spoken to him since the end of April when I left and moved in with Adrian and his family... Well, I left Adrian's house about a month ago and moved in with my mother's sister in Long Island... I've been working and trying to find a better job so I can move back to the Bronx in October when my mother moves back up from Florida... I told my aunt when I moved in with her last month, not to tell my father where I was because I didn't want him to know anything about what I was doing... Basically, I feel if he's going to be abusive and throw me out then he doesnt need to know anything about my life...
Well, I found out from my uncle that she's been talking to him the whole time I've been here and that the only reason she brought me out here to live in the first place is because he asked her to so he could keep me away from Adrian... So, needless to say, I'm very angry with her and I feel like I'm still be controlled even now that I'm out of his house... In addition to that, I was speaking to my aunt last night and I told her that my phone bill is paid off and I have to send some money to my credit card because I havent had the money to send them in months... She proceeds to tell me that my father called her yesterday morning and left her a message that he sent $850 to my credit card and that now I can owe it to him... Im so angry about this!!!
He had NO RIGHT to send them money and expect that I would pay him back... I didn't ask for him to pay the bill and I know that he's not doing it out of the goodness of his heart... He's only doing it so that I have a reason to call him so that he wont answer me anyway... or so that he has some control over me by continuing to pay my bills... The other reason being that he is scared that my mother and I will take him to court because he owes her almost $30,000 in back child support and according to my parents divorce agreement he is responsible for my school loans which he conveniently had put in my name... He knows that we're planning on taking him to court and he's trying to cover his own butt!! Ugh! I'm so angry!
Well, I found out from my uncle that she's been talking to him the whole time I've been here and that the only reason she brought me out here to live in the first place is because he asked her to so he could keep me away from Adrian... So, needless to say, I'm very angry with her and I feel like I'm still be controlled even now that I'm out of his house... In addition to that, I was speaking to my aunt last night and I told her that my phone bill is paid off and I have to send some money to my credit card because I havent had the money to send them in months... She proceeds to tell me that my father called her yesterday morning and left her a message that he sent $850 to my credit card and that now I can owe it to him... Im so angry about this!!!