Ok Obviously John and I are going threw alot of changes lately in our life. We havnt even been together for 6 months yet. And things have just gone sooo fast. I love him to death but sometimes it freaks me out how fast things are going. I cant see my life without him. Yet Im terrified by how much I need and love him. He's been talking about getting married alot lately.
And it really freaks me out. I know its stupid but I get so scared when he talks about it.
We had a fairly large fight him onto moving into his house. I love his house its out in the country beautiful, a couple acres perfect. BUT I dont want to deal with moving. He hates it here in my house. Because of the area. Its awful. He started talking about keeping Big Bird. I said that I still wasnt sure how I felt about it. That I wasnt sure if I wanted another dog in this small of house.
Somehow the conversation turned to getting married. I told him I wanted to marry him EVENTUALLY and that I felt it was just to soon. Weve only been dating 5 1/2 months. He flipped out and said something about after all weve been threw it doesnt matter how long weve been together. Weve been threw more then most people would go threw their whole lives. And that I just didnt want to be married to him because I have a problem with being with someone who actually cares about me. That I just want to be with someone who is mean and abusive to me.
Which of course made me mad and I said some less then nice things about him and he said some more nasty things and we went our seperate ways. He is now sitting in his bed looking very pathetic and sent me a text message asking if I wanted to talk. I dont want to talk because I dont want to start fighting again.
Am I being totally irrational about this? Like I said I love him to death but I dont think that we NEED to get married yet. He seems to think we need to get married tomorow or somethin.g
We had a fairly large fight him onto moving into his house. I love his house its out in the country beautiful, a couple acres perfect. BUT I dont want to deal with moving. He hates it here in my house. Because of the area. Its awful. He started talking about keeping Big Bird. I said that I still wasnt sure how I felt about it. That I wasnt sure if I wanted another dog in this small of house.
Somehow the conversation turned to getting married. I told him I wanted to marry him EVENTUALLY and that I felt it was just to soon. Weve only been dating 5 1/2 months. He flipped out and said something about after all weve been threw it doesnt matter how long weve been together. Weve been threw more then most people would go threw their whole lives. And that I just didnt want to be married to him because I have a problem with being with someone who actually cares about me. That I just want to be with someone who is mean and abusive to me.
Am I being totally irrational about this? Like I said I love him to death but I dont think that we NEED to get married yet. He seems to think we need to get married tomorow or somethin.g