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I live with a family member and there are three cats in the house. My mom has two male cats (One small, one clearly alpha) and I have one female cat. I know the Alpha cat is alpha because it will bite the other male to tell it to get out of his spot, eat the other cats food, howl at my female cat to try and have sex, and it poops outside of the litter box. The pooping outside of the litter box has been occuring before I moved in (For the past three years.) My mom has accepted this as a way of life and is a dedicated picker upper of the poop and wants me to join in on the activity. I do not think this makes any type of sense. Since I have moved in, I have been adament about finding a solution to this problem. We have taken the cat to the vet where they say he is constipated and they have given him laxative to try and clear the problem. There has been no change in the pooping behavior. We have three separate litter boxes on different floors of the house that are cleaned twice daily. We have tried changing food and types of litter with no luck. This has occured when there are just the two males and when the female is introduced so we know that the female is not the reason he is pooping. She is a firm believer in not physically disciplining the cat and I am thinking that this is a dominance issue. She agrees this is a dominance issue. In my eyes, this 20 lb cat thinks it is more dominant that us humans and is saying I am the alpha and I will poop where I want to and you humans will be submissive to me and pick up my poop. I do not feel that humans are below cats on the dominance spectrum and think action should be taken. I understand that people think it is useless to discipline cats but hear me out.. If we were to step down in inteligence and dominance to the level of a different alpha cat.. What would that alpha cat do to stop this problem?? It would attack the cat that is pooping outside of the litter box until it quit this behavior. I think it makes sense to discipline the cat until it understands that it cannot participate in this behavior. Again, we have changed litter, food, and other solutions people offer with no luck. I am confident that this is a dominance issue and I'm not sure of any other way to convince this cat that it is no dominant. This has occured 14 times in the past two months so it is getting old picking up poop before I can cook my breakfast. I am not trying to offend anyone but I feel this is a logical solution and would love to hear any professional opinions.