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I have two cats, one male and one female. They are both fixed, 2 years old, and siblings. The male has always played a little rough, but they've always played and were fine eventually. Suddenly and without warning, they were fighting four days ago in the morning. Not bloodshed or anything, but she was hissing and growling at him and he was stalking her. I thought that would be the end of it. But it continued throughout the day.
That evening they slept and were in the same room and acting fine. But again the next day they had the same confrontations. It seemed to get better by early evening. They cuddled with me together and even played with me at the same time. No hissing, no growling. She went to bed with me, and I suppose she felt cornered in my bedroom, because as soon as he entered, she flipped out and hid underneath my bed. And today, it's been the same. She hisses and growls at him for existing and then he stalks her, and sometimes attempts to swat at her. It all sounds a lot worse than it is. They've never really come to blows, fur hasn't flown, and blood hasn't been shed. I can be thankful for that.
I did call my vet for advice. He suggested that I try usng Feliway wipes. So I did that today, not sure how quickly they are supposed to work, but so far there hasn't been any change. Both cats are eating, acting normal towards me and others in the home. There hasn't been any changes that would set them off to my knowledge, I've thought long and hard about what it could be. Sometimes they do see other cats outside the window, and it gets them riled up, but they usually just brush it off. I have no idea what is going on.
I am currently locked in my bedroom with my girl, so that she can get some peace tonight. Thinking of keeping them separate, but I don't know how that's going to go over. I havent slept in days. I am so anxious over this. These are my babies. They are acting so out of the ordinary, and I don't know what to do.
I am so exhausted and defeated by this. Any advice or friendly encouragement is appreciated.
That evening they slept and were in the same room and acting fine. But again the next day they had the same confrontations. It seemed to get better by early evening. They cuddled with me together and even played with me at the same time. No hissing, no growling. She went to bed with me, and I suppose she felt cornered in my bedroom, because as soon as he entered, she flipped out and hid underneath my bed. And today, it's been the same. She hisses and growls at him for existing and then he stalks her, and sometimes attempts to swat at her. It all sounds a lot worse than it is. They've never really come to blows, fur hasn't flown, and blood hasn't been shed. I can be thankful for that.
I did call my vet for advice. He suggested that I try usng Feliway wipes. So I did that today, not sure how quickly they are supposed to work, but so far there hasn't been any change. Both cats are eating, acting normal towards me and others in the home. There hasn't been any changes that would set them off to my knowledge, I've thought long and hard about what it could be. Sometimes they do see other cats outside the window, and it gets them riled up, but they usually just brush it off. I have no idea what is going on.
I am currently locked in my bedroom with my girl, so that she can get some peace tonight. Thinking of keeping them separate, but I don't know how that's going to go over. I havent slept in days. I am so anxious over this. These are my babies. They are acting so out of the ordinary, and I don't know what to do.
I am so exhausted and defeated by this. Any advice or friendly encouragement is appreciated.