Hello, I am hoping you all can help me help my remaining fur baby. I have a bonded pair of littermates that are roughly 2. Yesterday one of the brothers was having trouble breathing suddenly and I rushed to emergency vet, where he sadly passed. Needless to say I am heartbroken. But I am so worried about his brother and how to help him adjust. They’ve never been apart, aside from 1 vet stay. When I got home from the vet he sniffed the empty carrier and stayed pretty close to my side all day/evening. He’s always been a snuggler but he was even more so-which I completely welcomed. We slept on the couch so I could monitor food/water intake (moved it all to living room) and he did eat/drink/use litter box and play some surf toys. This morning though, he’s walking through the house mewing and trying to open doors-I think looking for his brother. (Which obviously made me burst into tears again). Other than show lots of love and monitor food/water intake…what else can I do to help him? To add another layer to this…I travel for work 1-2 weeks a month. I always have people coming to check on/feed daily, but I always felt better about leaving because they had each other. my next work trip is 2.5 weeks away thankfully so I can spend time with my boy, but what are your suggestions on helping him through that? I mean even leaving to go run errands is making me feel guilty right now…on top of the other what/if items I’m beating myself up over on if I could have done anything different yesterday to not have this outcome .
sorry for the long post. To summarize…
1) how do I help a remaining litter mate/bonded pair adjust when their partner suddenly passes. Cat is 2yo.
2) I feel guilty leaving my remaining boy to even run basic errands…let along travel for work. What are your suggestions on helping that…or am I just projecting human emotions because I’m sad?
thank you!
sorry for the long post. To summarize…
1) how do I help a remaining litter mate/bonded pair adjust when their partner suddenly passes. Cat is 2yo.
2) I feel guilty leaving my remaining boy to even run basic errands…let along travel for work. What are your suggestions on helping that…or am I just projecting human emotions because I’m sad?
thank you!