Hello I am new here and I live in the UK but i am sure advice is all the same! I have a stray/feral cat in my spare room. He has no microchip and nobody in my village is looking for him. I have been feeding him for 14 months before we caught him and shut him in the room. Now..he is very unpredictable, obviously, and thats fine. Before we trapped him he was very aloof and if you touched him he scratched you but all of a sudden (literally) overnight he approached us to be touched and stroked! he has been in the room for 4 weeks now. he likes us going in he sits on the bed with us he loves being brushed but all of a sudden he will swipe you and go back under thee bed...again fine but my question is when do i take him to the vet. He was in a carrier for about 20 mins and went berserk and they didnt have space so he went into the room. When do i take the chance and grab him again. I really dont want to undo all our hard work by upsetting him. But he needs to be checked and netured and actually we need to find out for sure its a boy! we are 98% sure its a boy as he stinks and we think weve seen balls.