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I’m new to this site and this is my first reply so if it comes out bad I’m sorry.Hello! I have recently adopted an 8 year old Ragdoll mix cat from a local shelter about 4 weeks ago. I have been taking it slow but I have seen no progress other than seeing him in new hiding places. He can tolerate getting pet but I do not pet him because I think it stresses him out. One of those hiding places was in the fireplace where I thought I had blocked off enough so that he couldn’t get in. His paws and belly were covered in soot. I tried to rinse off the soot but I couldn’t get far before he urinated in the tub and I felt like I was making things worse. He was hissing and growling the entire time. I am not sure what to do anymore. The shelter has given me no answer as to if he was a stray or not so I don’t know any basis for his behavior. I feel helpless and I feel like with every little thing I do, I’m just making it worse.
Before the bath fiasco happened, he was just a little wallflower kitty. Hiding and only coming out to eat, drink, use the litter box, and explore during the night. Even when I sat in the room with my back to him, quietly reading, he would not approach me. Now, I’m afraid he won’t come out at all. I’m very sorry if this is all over the place, I don’t know who to go to/what to do or anything.
Is there anything I could do to help him? Am I doing something wrong? And if I am, how can I fix it? :–((
But I read your issue and to me I’d just let him be. Make sure he has safe warm cozy spots and food. Pretty much all he needs and maybe he will warm up more and maybe he just won’t. I have two cats sisters from the same litter and one is so friendly the other just isn’t she is more skittish. They are four years old and raised exactly the same. I just let her be. I feel like that’s just the personality for some or maybe some pasty trauma either way I’m really happy you were willing to give him a home and he is very cute