I added a kitten to my household a couple of months back. I figured my three year old adult cat might want a friend since he seems bored and sleeps all the time. I'm beginning to think though that he is merely tolerating the other cat and doesn't necessarily *like* his presence. Let me know what you think:
When/if they are caught snuggling when sleeping, it's because the kitten goes up to him after he's asleep and cuddles up. If he's awake and the kitten goes near him, he walks away.
When he's eating and the kitten comes near, he will stop eating and walk away.
When he's playing with a toy and the kitten comes by and shows interest in the toy too, he immediately loses interest, stops playing, and walks away. Sometimes he will watch from afar but he will never join in to play if the kitten is also playing. As a result of this, he *rarely* plays anymore.
After my husband goes to work every morning, he used to come into the bedroom and join me in bed. However the kitten is always in the bedroom now and he'll now wait outside the room.
He used to greet and be more interactive with guests but now he just sits from a distance and watches as the kitten climbs all over people.
Lastly, he used to follow me from room to room (occasionally) but he doesn't do that anymore.
In general, he seems more withdrawn and independent than before...before we adopted the kitten, we actually were seeing him become more and more people oriented and affectionate but it seems like he's keeping his distance nowadays.
In the early morning, they do chase each other around and he does sometimes groom the kitten.
Do all these changes mean anything? Is this a sign of a now unhappy cat or is it normal?
(obviously the kitten is not going anywhere but I'm curious!)
When/if they are caught snuggling when sleeping, it's because the kitten goes up to him after he's asleep and cuddles up. If he's awake and the kitten goes near him, he walks away.
When he's eating and the kitten comes near, he will stop eating and walk away.
When he's playing with a toy and the kitten comes by and shows interest in the toy too, he immediately loses interest, stops playing, and walks away. Sometimes he will watch from afar but he will never join in to play if the kitten is also playing. As a result of this, he *rarely* plays anymore.
After my husband goes to work every morning, he used to come into the bedroom and join me in bed. However the kitten is always in the bedroom now and he'll now wait outside the room.
He used to greet and be more interactive with guests but now he just sits from a distance and watches as the kitten climbs all over people.
Lastly, he used to follow me from room to room (occasionally) but he doesn't do that anymore.
In general, he seems more withdrawn and independent than before...before we adopted the kitten, we actually were seeing him become more and more people oriented and affectionate but it seems like he's keeping his distance nowadays.
In the early morning, they do chase each other around and he does sometimes groom the kitten.
Do all these changes mean anything? Is this a sign of a now unhappy cat or is it normal?
(obviously the kitten is not going anywhere but I'm curious!)