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Everywhere you read they say grief is filled with ups and downs. And it truly is. Today is a bad day. It truly just feels like my heart is breaking all over again.
I made the decition to end my sweet dear Max’ life 11 months ago (he got sick). It was the right thing to do, I know that. But I miss him. So much. If anything I would say he was my soulmate, and it just hurts that he is gone. I still have his brother Pepsi here with me, but he is not Max. No matter how much I also love Pepsi, there is just that differance in the bond that we have. Its not even about opening up my heart or anything like that, because I love him so much. Its hard to even put into words, to try and explain the differance.
On days like this I just cry. Its all I can do. I know that putting down my thoughts, like this, putting it out on the internet can help calm me down, even if noone reads this, chances are it will make me feel a little bit better.
Some days I feel like maybe I should try and seek out someone proffesional to talk to. But there is about a 2 year wait list to get help, and honestly even if I did talk to someone it would not really change anything. I am just plain sad because I miss Max. No amount of talking would really make it any better. Nothing will bring him back. I am en emotional person to begin with, introverter and highly sensitive, so this kind of loss will always be there with me, comming back up every now and them, hitting just as had as the day the loss happened.
Grief really is a rollercoaster, and I hate that I am on the ride. But its what I agreed to when I went to pick up two kittens a little over 7 years ago. Its a ride we will all have to join if we want to have loved ones in our life.
To anyone who read through this, thank you for letting me share my emotions
I made the decition to end my sweet dear Max’ life 11 months ago (he got sick). It was the right thing to do, I know that. But I miss him. So much. If anything I would say he was my soulmate, and it just hurts that he is gone. I still have his brother Pepsi here with me, but he is not Max. No matter how much I also love Pepsi, there is just that differance in the bond that we have. Its not even about opening up my heart or anything like that, because I love him so much. Its hard to even put into words, to try and explain the differance.
On days like this I just cry. Its all I can do. I know that putting down my thoughts, like this, putting it out on the internet can help calm me down, even if noone reads this, chances are it will make me feel a little bit better.
Some days I feel like maybe I should try and seek out someone proffesional to talk to. But there is about a 2 year wait list to get help, and honestly even if I did talk to someone it would not really change anything. I am just plain sad because I miss Max. No amount of talking would really make it any better. Nothing will bring him back. I am en emotional person to begin with, introverter and highly sensitive, so this kind of loss will always be there with me, comming back up every now and them, hitting just as had as the day the loss happened.
Grief really is a rollercoaster, and I hate that I am on the ride. But its what I agreed to when I went to pick up two kittens a little over 7 years ago. Its a ride we will all have to join if we want to have loved ones in our life.
To anyone who read through this, thank you for letting me share my emotions