I appreciate your response, even though I haven't had time to reply in a while! Four years is such a long time; I applaud your patience! We've noticed the same thing in Graves; giving him lots of extra attention, especially through long play so it tires him out at the same time, has definitely...
Sorry it took me a while to reply, but thank you for your response! I've never noticed anything off or extra smelly in how his pee smells, so we're probably all clear. His nature is still very frustrating, but through slow reintroduction, things have gotten slightly better. We intervene every...
Here is the first post I made about our new cat situation: Attempt #2 - I feel like giving up. (info on all three cats involved is in the previous thread). Writing that one and reading responses was so comforting, so I thought I'd post an update.
Things started out bleak, I must admit. Since...
I'm not ready to, I just feel like it 😂 Really though, I do badly want to make this work. The frustrating part is we did a ton of research, went through all the steps, had them eating with eachother, and they were fine commingling for two days. THEN, things went south quickly, with my cat...
Yes, some of that is for sure helpful. I like the idea of putting the boys in the bedroom when I'm home. I wouldn't have thought of that, so thank you. I don't think keeping her in the bedroom at night will work for me, bc she's still going to be crying to get out, but I can keep her there...
Mine (F) is 4, his are both 1 (both M). It's his house, 2 rooms, and my cat is the one who's moved. They're all fixed. No health concerns. We've each had the cats since they were young kittens. And his cats are brothers; they're very close, no issues between them.
The reason I decided on the...
This is Day 1 of my second attempt to introduce my cat Clara (4 yo), to my boyfriend's cats (two 1 yo). We had to stop the first time, bc after several days of calm, they started attacking each other and we couldn't reset the introduction process at the time bc we'd be leaving to travel soon...