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  1. VBG

    Out Of Options

    We've been attempting to manage his behavior since February of this year. So, 10 months.. not weeks. We returned to our vet for a thorough exam, also ensuring his neutering "took". We've tried pheromones, CBD, time out/separation, extended play, supervised outdoor time, physical restraint in the...
  2. VBG

    Out Of Options

    I am afraid of, and therefore Do Not like our cat. Back in the spring I asked for help with our kitten Gus. His aggressive play was causing a lot of trouble. I got good advice and we did everything we could, including CBD oil. Fast forward to today and we have an 18 pound, 4 foot long killing...
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    Leash Training Cat, But She’s Terrified Of Cars.

    We've been taking Gus out on a leash since he was big enough to fit into the harness! We started slow, just the backyard. Then, the side yard, and finally the front. By the time we got to the front, with cars, pedestrians and activity at the nearby park, he had developed a sense of security. I...
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    First Time Cat(s?) Owner: Should We Get One Or Two Kittens?

    I've had one and I've had 2. The only downside to having 2? Knowing my heart would be broken twice. And litter mates are like seniors, they often follow not long after they lose their companion. Their depression can be difficult, as you try to navigate your own. It nearly ended me to lose '2...
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    Name Three Things - 2018

    I arranged for the POD containers to move us from TX to OR. Busy time of year so I'm glad I was on top of that. Making pulled prk bbq in the crockpot & I'll brown some sweet potato fries in the wok. You find new ways to cook when its 102° 'but feels 111°. Ovens are for storage.
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    My Cat Won't Stop Pooping On The Floor And I'm At A Loss As To Why & Getting Desperate

    You can also try putting training pads near the box. They instinctively understand and can be re-directed with an option they find more comfortable.
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    My Cat Won't Stop Pooping On The Floor And I'm At A Loss As To Why & Getting Desperate

    My Luka did that too. Vet determined that due to dehydration, pooping would be painful and difficult. In a box, they may not be able to position themselves as needed. Try some canned pumpkin, it's a natural stool softener. Then, ensure kitty has more than one water source. A fountain can...
  8. VBG

    Beautiful Magnificent Leroy

    Crazy believes the pillow is real. Grief seeks comfort. And your choice is quite literally comforting. Well done.
  9. VBG

    My Cat Is Mean

    UPDATE: As of today we haven't had one 'redline' attack! Certainly kitten play, but he hasn't launched himself at me with teeth bared. He actually likes having 'his own room ' and doesn't tear it apart like I had imagined. Having never had this experience with cats past, I was unaware that being...
  10. VBG

    My Cat Is Mean

    No problems at all! We're having great success and have begun using it only situationally. Coupled with overnight confinement Gus has a clear understanding of who runs this joint
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    My Cat Won’t Stop Biting Me

    We have been dealing with the exact same issue! CBD oil has had an extremely positive effect! Also, confinement overnight is helping to establish the dominance in our pride. Gus was ferocious in his attacks, but we haven't had a 'redline' attack in almost a week. I suggest you talk to your Vet...
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    Beautiful Magnificent Leroy

    {hug}
  13. VBG

    Did I Make The Right Choice?

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I truly believe you made a decision that spared both of you an extended and painful illness that would ultimately come to this. It wouldn't be any easier a year from now. It's weird, the selfless decision to end our beloveds suffering leaves us feeling guilty. But we...
  14. VBG

    Struggling After Loss & Dealing With Guilt

    I'm so very sorry. I really do know how that feels. I felt intense guilt after losing my first cat of nearly 16 years. Please don't punish yourself. You didn't do anything intentionally to hurt her and continued tto seek help for her. In the end, all we can do i I'm so very sorry. I really do...
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    My Cat Is Mean

    Because it's completely legal, he bought it at a vape shop. The benefits are numerous, from calming to topical pain relief. We read several articles, including petMDcat that support the use of CBD while stressing careful dosage. It couldn't hurt to try on a scaredy cat as it has great calming...
  16. VBG

    My Cat Is Mean

    I hope you're just being cheeky. This isn't fun or funny.
  17. VBG

    My Cat Is Mean

    First, thanks to everyone who offered suggestions and insight! Just reading the experience of other cat people has helped alot! Here's the latest; I always believed him to be younger than was stated and a few behaviors have indicated that he was taken from his Mom & siblings too soon. Obviously...
  18. VBG

    My Cat Is Mean

    Alright. We have an appointment on Monday and I have specifically requested the GnRh test. Meanwhile, Gus bit my husband this AM. It's going to be a looong weekend. Thanks ya'll, most useful help I've gotten thus far!!
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