Hi all! It's been a while since I posted and I'm not sure you'll see this but I wanted to give an update - things are going much better. There's NO hissing between them, and Rafa (who yes, is the dominant one) and Roger will allow Ghost to sleep near them. Occasionally there will be some...
Thank you all. I really, really appreciate your encouragement and optimism. Deep down I guess I know I can't let her back outside, and yes, it is really stressing me out. I need to refocus and reprioritize and be sure I'm doing this right. Thank you for all these suggestions. The Obsession for...
Hi all!
I have two sweet three-year-old boys, Roger and Rafa (my husband and I are tennis fans). Roger alternates between being very sleepy/cozy vs. very awake, affectionate, and needy for playtime. There's like, no middle ground. He chases his tail a lot. He's the orange one and he's a total...
Thank you for your kind post! Ghost is still inside. I can try re-introducing them. My only concern is keeping Ghost locked up even more than she is now, when she seems so happy to roam and explore and be around things. Won't that make her even more unhappy?
I've thought about setting her up...
She was in the house for a few days in March for her spay, and now has been in the house for five days this time. I know it's still early and I need to give it time. But what if the time is making everyone so miserable? Shouldn't I see more progress with Rafa by now, if he's ever going to fully...
Hello all, I'm having a problem that is just breaking my heart, and I'm not sure if it's worth it to continue anymore. (I'm new here - so I hope I'm not breaking any rules or doing something wrong or posting in the incorrect space. Please forgive me if I am. I'm happy to post elsewhere. I just...