How Your Cat Reacts When You Sniff The Back Of Her Head?

NochasMom

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Hi! I'm new here and signed up, because I have a question. I had a cat, who came to us as a stray, on her last leg of starvation. We live practically in the woods, and I had seen many of her relatives in the previous years living in the wild (all black with green eyes, short paws, smallish).

So, we took her in and called her Nocha. We always had a cat, all calicos, and each had her own personality, but Nocha turned out very, very different. I assumed the oddities in her behavior were due to the fact that she had been a feral cat. And she did many odd things I never saw other cats do. For example, she always 'buried' the remains of her food -- and not because she did not like it. This was her way of 'doing dishes'. Of course, we did not have sand on our kitchen floor, but this did not prevent her from automatically going through the motions, first with the right paw, then the left, then right again, and so on (she was diligent).

She never had a permanent spot to hang out, but would change it, without fail, about every two weeks, which, of course is the life cycle for fleas. Also, she was very afraid of flies. I think this is because, in the woods, there is no household flies but only nasty flies that bite. When an insect approached her, she would start swaying her raised tail wildly, like a windshield wiper in heavy rain, and if the bugger persisted, she would take off running. There were other odd things she did, but the main question I have now is about how she behaved when I sniffed her.

The strange thing was that, in summer, Nocha smelled like fine perfume, faint from a distance, but very distinctly if you sniff the back of her head. In winter she would loose that scent, but come summer, she would start wallowing in dry dirt (which always freaked me out) and I noticed that this scent would resume about a week after her first 'dry dirt bath'. And of course she did not have fleas, though I know this is a normal behavior for the animals with fleas in the wild. I know that this smell is oxidized sulfur metabolite of some bacteria, forgot what it's called, it is used in perfumery as a base. Somewhat reminiscent of musk, but her scent was finer.

So, when I sniffed her, she would get offended (!). This manifested by her slapping me on the face (gently and claws closed of course), then she would jump off my lap, obviously displeased. The first time I did not put the two together, but the second time this intrigued me, and I grabbed her and did it again -- and she slapped me stronger and even mewed, very offended!

I took it that in cats' etiquette sniffing (other than under the tail, I suppose) is a big no-no. I confess that I have never sniffed other cats we had and so to this day I wonder, was it yet another strange thing Nocha did or is it something other cats also do?

I would like to know how your cat reacts when you sniff the back of her head.

Sorry for the long post and thanks for reading.
 

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Hi! Welcome!! What a delightful post, thank you so much for sharing!

My boy basically puts up with it and somewhat indicates that his mama has lost her mind however momentarily :lol:
 

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Olive was not feral, she was an abandoned stray. But she does exhibit similar behaviors. She buries her food, she definitely sleeps in one spot for weeks and then suddenly doesn’t do it again, and she is stupid about burning the litterbox (plastic sides don’t cover anything, yet oh she tries).

But her being a socialized stray rather than feral means she is extremely cuddly and affectionate. I started giving her hugs slowly, and she nuzzles me and starts to purr. I’ve smelled the back of her head fairly often - she is more of a swampy mushroom smell with a bit of musk - and she seems to not care really.

Our other guy Gohan smells like dryer sheets, although he mostly walks away when huffed.
 

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Two of my three cats don't care if I sniff or not. Chester doesn't like sniffs. He'll pull out of your grip and run away if sniffed.
 

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She might see that sniff as a prelude to the biting and wrestling behaviour I see between my cats. The usual approach is that one guy comes up at a 90 degree angle to the other, loops a forearm over the other's neck/shoulder and then bites and pushes the other one over.
 

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Feeby, who is now 14+, was found as an abandoned/stray around 2 and had apparently been on her own a while as she was pretty emaciated. To this day, if I go to smell the back of her head (for me, it's more like giving her a little hug with my face), she will tolerate it but kind of 'freeze up'. Then, when I move away, you can see by her body language that she relaxes.

I liken her behavior to be similar to what you've described, but Feeby has always been a pretty docile, laid-back kind of cat.

I would have never even thought to connect it to what her life might have been like before she found us!!
 

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One of my cats changes his personal napping space every several weeks, I didn't know it has a functional explanation, thanks for enlightening me :) He buries the food as well, but he enjoys my sniffing a lot - but I guess he just enjoys being close to human body in whatever form. He smells like unsweetened vanilla cookie. The other cat smells like fresh grass. I don't know if they have been feral, both were actively seeking human help while on the street/freeway so I'm guessing they were abandoned rather than feral.
 

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Some of our cats will try to bury their wet food after they have eaten their fill. The one who does it most often is Zuzu. She has been indoor her whole life, but her mom is a former feral, so maybe she picked it up from her. Interestingly, no one ever tries to cover up dry food. Maybe because the dry isn't as smelly?

I did a sniffing experiment just now on a few of ours. Keith just gave me a head boop and rubbed against my face, Sam turned his head around and sniffed me back, and Jasmine (former feral) just gave me a confused look. No one seemed offended.
 

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Just wanted to add to this because I also have a cat that isn't fully socialized. I believe she was taken from her mom before she turned a month old, so she definitely has a bit of single kitten syndrome. She doesn't have the best manners and is a little wild in general.

That said, Smo tolerates a LOT of sniffing from me. I can't help it - I'm always smelling or kissing her head. It's a little bit stinky, not perfume-y in the least, so I don't know why I keep doing it. It just smells like her.

Surprisingly, she's really good about tolerating kisses and sniffs, and seems to know what I'm trying to tell her when I do it - I love you I love you I love you. When she's in a relaxed mood she'll purr, and when she's in a snippy mood she'll quietly seethe but tolerate me. My best guess is that she got kissed a lot by her old owner as a kitten so she's okay being handled in this way.
 

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I just checked. Stewart doesn't care. He starts licking my arm that's in front of him. He licks things.
He's our weird cat. He moved in semi feral, but that was six years ago.
 

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I tried this just now because I was so curious!

Marple did not really care. She's the one who gets jumped on more by Radish so between the two I thought she would be more likely to show signs of not liking it if she thought it would lead to a bite. But she just stood there and then turned around and sniffed me. Her smell is very faint. I think it's because Radish cleans her very frequently.

Radish also did not care! He has a stronger, kind of thick must sort of smell. Marple doesn't clean him and he has longer fur, so I assume more smell gets "trapped" in his fur there where he can't reach.

Thanks for that fun! My husband is obviously used to me doing weird things with the cats because he did not question why I was huffing the backs of their heads at all. :updown:
 
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