Recent Content by Tofoo

My thanks to everyone who has posted here offering kindness and support. I appreciate every word. I still cry everyday for him. I don't really want to forgive myself at the moment but I do take solace in that he was with me in the last moments because f I had gone to bed a few minutes earlier he...

Top Cat and kittens mom thank you. You are both right. The 'what ifs' are the worst and what eat us up. i am comforted by him passing in my arms even though it was traumatic at the time. I know my vet did her best as well. She is a lovely vet who i have known for years and I have immense respect...

Thank you for your kind words. He was loved, very loved, and yes I'm also glad he was with me in my arms. I just wish I had had the courage to make the phone call to the vet at 3am or that she had offered to euthanise him when I first took him to her rather than inflicting the hours he spent...

Hi, I hope I'm posting this in the correct area? My cat died on Wednesday morning. He had been perfectly fine that evening and after a spot of food he went out to pee. This was about 11.30. A few minutes later he was struggling to get back in through the cat flap and thats when I discovered he...