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Oh and yes - he is neutered, vaccinated and chipped. :) As is my female.

I think you're right about this. That they are actually really close by asleep in a bush or something. I know he goes into my neighbours garden (her's is huge!), and climbs her apple trees - as well as sleeps in her hedges. She likes him - she feeds my cats when we go away, so it's good she's a...

Yes! He is neutered, vaccinated and chipped. :) As is my female.

That is mad! I have seen cats like that before... My cat - I hope - will not turn into that cat!

Thank you, you made me feel better about posting this! I came here (rather than talking to my husband), because I knew that you would all understand, being fellow cat lovers! :)

It's a silly post by me, really. It was only my neighbour compounding my thoughts! Of course I cannot do anything! It's just a worry... but that's what you get to let your cats out. To his advantage, he is also scared by loud noises and strangers. So I hope he'll stick to the boundary mostly! I...

I've just been speaking to our neighbours who live opposite. They have noticed the same as me, that my little cat (he's just one) often will go out the front, and sit on the pavement. Now, the neighbour said he's worried he will dart into the road and get knocked over. I said to him that I have...

I think this is the decision I have come to for the time being, and am going to run with it for a week and see how it goes. I kept him in the living area three nights ago and my old girl came back. Then I let him out the night before last and he ambushed her in the middle of the night, so he...

I like this. But then someone else said maybe all night is not great for the younger male. I don't know what to do. If I leave him out to roam the house, he will typically settle at the foot of our bed in my old girls spot, and she will go elsewhere, usually to sleep on a bed I have made up in...

He is!

Yeah this is where I struggle. I love the fact my female older cat has returned to her old spot at the foot of my bed, it feels right and how it should be, however, as soon as 'jerk' as someone nicknamed teenage male cats (affectionately of course!), comes into the room, no matter the time (gone...

Fabulous - thank you everyone! I understand about just letting them figure it out themselves, and perhaps not worrying too much about separating them? At night even? Although I did like the fact my old girl came back to her own spot, but missed my playful boy! Ha! It all makes sense really, and...

thank you for your reply! For all of them. I do love him sleeping nearby. But the other issue is that he stole our resident cat's sleeping spot! She has slept with us for six years now, at the foot of our bed - not a peep from her. She doesn't wake us. Or didn't. But now she won't come and sleep...

That is a really good idea!