My resident cat is 2 years 3 months old and we adopted him when he was only 3 months. I adopted a 2nd cat, about 1 year old female, 3 weeks ago and did a slow-ish intro where the new cat was living in her own room and we didn't let them physically meet until 4-5 days in when the new cat was totally comfortable with her surroundings. The intro seemed to go really well and both cats seemed open to each other and didn't display any acts of aggression. I was optimistic that I got super lucky and the 2 cats would be friends rather quickly.
Fast forward to this week, my resident cat has been almost nonstop chasing the new cat throughout the day, and while I know it's *mostly play*, I also know the new cat is stressed out and has been hiding/shrinking whenever she feels his presence. I suspect the resident cat is asserting his dominance and wanting her to know who's boss, so I'm unsure where to go from here. I've tried all sorts of distractions when he gets fixated on her, but nothing has helped, yet! Google search is telling me to separate the 2 cats and re-intro slowly, but I'm unsure if that will help if the issue is stemming from the resident cat wanting to assert dominance? For context, the resident cat hasn't been around around other cats since he was a kitten, so I think he's socially awkward with other cats. The new kitty has been around many cats, new and old, at her last foster house, and has an great temperament/super playful. Any advice would be greatly appreciated - feeling a little helpless as there hasn't been any progress... (I know time will help, but I hate that the new kitty is so miserable!!)
Fast forward to this week, my resident cat has been almost nonstop chasing the new cat throughout the day, and while I know it's *mostly play*, I also know the new cat is stressed out and has been hiding/shrinking whenever she feels his presence. I suspect the resident cat is asserting his dominance and wanting her to know who's boss, so I'm unsure where to go from here. I've tried all sorts of distractions when he gets fixated on her, but nothing has helped, yet! Google search is telling me to separate the 2 cats and re-intro slowly, but I'm unsure if that will help if the issue is stemming from the resident cat wanting to assert dominance? For context, the resident cat hasn't been around around other cats since he was a kitten, so I think he's socially awkward with other cats. The new kitty has been around many cats, new and old, at her last foster house, and has an great temperament/super playful. Any advice would be greatly appreciated - feeling a little helpless as there hasn't been any progress... (I know time will help, but I hate that the new kitty is so miserable!!)