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What Will Happen To My Cat If I Die?

Jan 12, 2019 · ·
  1. Anne
    Although nobody likes to think about their own eventual demise, it’s important to think of your cat and how they’ll be cared for when you’re no longer able to do so. If you’re wondering, “What will happen to my cat if I die?” you’ve come to the right place.
    What Will Happen to My Cat if I Die? A concise step-by-step guide for making sure your cat is well taken care of in case you pass away

    What happens to your cat when you die depends on how you plan for your death. You should have clear instructions as to who takes your cat and how they are to be cared for. You should also provide the finances necessary for your cat to be cared for as you desire.

    Keep reading to find out more about how you can plan for your cat’s care following your death. We’ll give you everything you need to ensure your cat doesn’t live out his or her life in a high-volume shelter without you to take care of them.

    Step 1: Determine Who Will Care for Your Cat

    The first thing you’ll need to do is find someone who’s willing to take over ownership of your cat after you die. Think about your friends and family members and determine which home would be best for your cat.

    Here are a few things to consider when looking for a new potential owner for your cat:

    Cat or Pet Experience

    If someone has no experience with cats, that doesn’t necessarily disqualify them from being able to care for your cat. However, it does help to know that the person taking your cat when you’re no longer there to care for them knows what they’re doing.

    Size of Household

    Some cats do better in smaller households without too many hands and feet. If your cat has lived alone with you her whole life, adjusting to a ten-member home could be overwhelming. This is particularly true if your cat wasn’t around children and their new home has several.

    Number and Type of Other Pets

    In addition to the number of people in the house, you also need to consider pets. Some cats are fine with other felines, while others prefer to be the one and only cat in the house.

    You’ll also need to look at the other types of pets someone has. Will your cat attempt to eat them? Will they attempt to eat your cat? If you’re not sure how well your cat will get along with someone else’s pets, you may want to arrange some “pet play dates” to see how things go.

    Size of Home

    Most cats do well in even the smallest of spaces since they don’t require a lot of exercise and can get it in a limited area. However, cats do like to have at least one area to call their own. So, if there are too many other people and pets to allow your cat to have her own space, you may want to move on to other candidates.

    Home Environment

    No matter how many people and pets are in a home, every home has its own environment. Some are louder, with people constantly coming and going. Others are quieter with much more consistency. Make sure your cat’s personality is matched to the home environment they’re going into. Otherwise, she’ll end up being over- or understimulated.

    Financial Ability

    If someone doesn’t have the financial ability to care for your cat the way you want them to, you may need to find someone else to care for them. However, since you can provide financially for your cat’s care after your death, this may not be an issue.

    Step 2: Formally Ask Beneficiary

    Once you’ve figured out who’s best suited to care for your furry friend after you’re gone, you need to formally ask them to take on this role. We recommend taking them out for a meal and addressing the issue there.

    Let them know that you’ve carefully considered your options and feel they would be the best caregiver for your cat. Then, ask them if they’re willing to take your cat should you die. If they agree, you can move onto the next step. If they don’t, you’ll need to pick the next best person on your list.

    Step 3: Arrange for Care

    Now that you have your beneficiary for your cat, you need to make sure everything happens as planned since you won’t be around to ensure they hold up their end of the bargain.

    There are four ways to arrange care for your cat after your death. Based on what you know about the person you found to take your cats, you can pick an option that best works for both of you.

    1. Make an Informal Arrangement

    This is by far the easiest since you’ve already set it up at this point. By asking someone you trust to take care of your cats, you’ve made an informal arrangement with them, and this could be the end of it. However, many people prefer to take it a step further and get it in writing.

    There are some reasons to not simply leave it at this step. For one thing, the other person can change their mind, and then there’s nothing official about what happens to your cats. Also, there’s no way to ensure your cat is getting the level of care you want.

    2. Include a Will Provision

    If you’re already creating a will, this is another cheap option since it won’t cost you much beyond what you’re already paying. One of the benefits of a will is that you can also provide money to your cat’s beneficiary to help them cover the additional costs of caring for your cat.

    However, this money provided will be given as a lump sum, and there’s no guarantee that it will be spent on your cat. There’s also an administrative process that has to happen before a will is executed. During this time, your cat’s care is completely up in the air.

    The best situation in which to include this is when you trust the person you’re giving to your cat, but simply want to make sure that there’s no fighting over your pets after your death. By adding a provision to your will, it lets everyone know exactly who you want to have your cat.

    3. Create a Pet Protection Agreement

    The next step up from a provision in your will is creating your own pet protection agreement. You can do this yourself, and it typically costs less than $100, so it’s relatively inexpensive. It allows you to have more control than a will provision and can be implemented in the event of a serious illness or injury.

    While this is much better to have than leaving it up to chance, there’s still one more option that will give you the maximum amount of control over the care of your cat after your death. You can learn more about how to set one up on Legal Zoom.

    4. Set Up a Pet Trust

    By far the best thing you can do for your cat before you die is set up a pet trust for them. It allows you to appoint both a caregiver and a trustee over your cat. The caregiver is then legally obligated to care for your cat the way you instructed.

    A pet trust gives you the most control, which includes allowing a certain amount of money to be released every month to care for your cat. This means the financial burden of caring for your fur-baby is not on the caregiver, so they can provide the best care for her.

    Another benefit to this option is being able to split the responsibility between two people. This means you can appoint someone as a trustee who cannot care for your pet themselves, but who has the best interest of your cat in mind. Then the caregiver can work with them to make decisions.

    The biggest disadvantage of this is the cost that goes into setting up a pet trust. Initial costs can be between $500 and $2,000. However, for the peace of mind it gives you, it’s well worth the investment to know your cat will continue to receive quality care.

    If you want to learn more about setting up a pet trust, you can read through this article on Nolo.

    Step 4: Create Care Instructions

    Even if you’re sticking with an informal agreement or will provision, you should still include as many instructions as possible for your cat’s new caregiver. This will help guide them in caring properly for your cat. With pet trusts, these instructions are legally binding.

    Here are a few of the instructions you’ll want to make sure you write out. When creating a pet trust, the lawyer should ask you questions to ensure all of these aspects are taken care of.

    Veterinary Care

    You need to start by including information about your cat’s veterinary office, and where to take her in the event of an emergency. From there, you’ll also want to specify what type of veterinary care they receive, and how often.

    Veterinary care may include:
    • Types and frequency of vaccines
    • Dental cleanings
    • The frequency of check-ups and what these include (bloodwork, medication, etc.)
    • Flea prevention


    What type of food does your cat eat? How often do they eat? How much do they eat at each meal? What type of treats do they get? How many treats should they get a day?

    These are all questions that should be answered as part of your cat care instructions. You should include the food your cat currently eats, but also offer a couple alternatives in case that food is discontinued in the future.


    Cats need exercise as much as the next living creature, and you can specify how much exercise they get and what type. For example, if you take your cat on a 20-minute walk around the neighborhood every morning, you can specify that your cat continues to get their daily walk.

    Cat Supplies

    Something else you can specify in a pet trust to ensure your cat is well-cared for is what supplies the caregiver provides for them. If your cat loves her floor-to-ceiling cat tree, you can say that one must be provided for her.

    With a pet trust, you’ll also need to specify how much money can be spent on these items and how much of the cost will be reimbursed.

    End-of-Life Decisions

    Your cat’s life will end at some point, hopefully at a ripe old age. When planning your own passing, you’ll also want to plan what happens at your cat’s. In addition to planning on whether your cat is cremated or buried upon her death, you’ll also need to specify at what point euthanasia should be considered.

    Other Preferences

    If your cat has a favorite toy or brand of catnip, you’ll also want to make sure these are included in the instructions. There are also additional decisions to be made when a pet trust is in place as to how the money is provided to the caregiver and how much the caregiver is overseen in their care.

    Working with a lawyer while creating a pet trust can ensure that nothing gets left out.

    Step 5: Leave Instructions Where They’ll be Found

    Once you have everything together, you need to make sure the instructions are left somewhere safe and easily accessible. This will ensure they’re found quickly after your death so your instructions regarding your cat can be carried out as soon as possible.

    What If I Can’t Find Someone to Care for My Cat?

    In the event that you can’t find someone you know to take your cat after you’ve passed, there are still options for you. There are organizations in place that will take your cat and work to find them a new forever home for you.

    As with the other options, you’ll want to provide as many detailed instructions as possible for the organization so the new owner can give your cat the best home. You’ll also want to include the information about the organization with your important paperwork.

    While many of these organizations are non-profit, we recommend leaving a donation to them as part of your will. This will help them care for your cat while they find her a new home, and will help them continue to work to find homes for every cat they take when someone passes.

    How Much Money Should I Set Aside for My Cat’s Care?

    It can be difficult to know exactly how much money you should provide for your cat’s caregiver. However, you’ll want to start by figuring out how much you spend on basic supplies and veterinary care every year.

    Figure out about how many years of life your cat has based on the average cat living to 15 years. Then, multiply that by your yearly basic expenses, and you have your starting point.

    Once you know how much food and veterinary care cost, you’ll need to add in extra expenses such as unexpected trips to the vet and cat supplies. An emergency trip to the vet can easily end up being thousands of dollars, so the more you have set aside for your cat, the better care they’ll receive.

    Something to keep in mind is that you don’t want to have too much money set aside for your cat. If you do, this increases the chances of the will being contested. In one case, a woman named Leona Helmsley left $12 million for her dog Trouble. After the amount was contested by surviving family members, he “only” ended up getting $2 million, with the rest going to her charitable foundation.

    Final Thoughts

    We hope this article helps you create a plan that works for you and protects your cat from ending up in the system after your death.

    When you bring a cat into your home, you’re committing to care for that animal for their entire life. If that expands beyond your own life, it’s important to make sure they still get the level of care they deserve.

    By thinking ahead, you can ensure your cat receives proper care for the rest of her life. Although it may sound complicated, it’s worth the effort to know what will happen to your cat if you die first.

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  1. Siameselisa
    Very good and detailed article. Many thanks and great respect to the author. Every cat owner is obliged to read and ponder the main issues of the article because we are all responsible for all those who were tamed. Everyone knows that only he loves his cat the most and knows all the habits and character of his pet. No one can love and care for your cat better than you! And your cat took you for the older member of your feline family and it is clear that all other people for her do not have such a value as you. It is clear that even with the best of intentions, your relatives or friends will not be able to give your pet the attention and warmth that you yourself gave. I asked specialists working in cat shelters and they confirmed that cats are difficult to endure the change of owners, and some people for the rest of their lives cannot establish those relations that were with the first owner. Of course, we can no longer do without our favorites, but the article makes us distract from our personal egoism and think about their future.
    It’s a great idea to have a legal plan for both relatives and your beloved family members. When your loved ones have big feelings for you, then, of course, they can promise you to take good care of your cat. But each cat eats its favorite food, and it can cost a thousand. It is here that your wisdom can manifest itself when your relative receives certain means that will allow him to remember you with double gratitude: for your pet, who has become a universal pet, and for being a light enough burden. It is very important to take into account that people who do not have pets are a little selfish and it may seem burdensome to clean the tray after the cat. And if you still need to spend money on special food ... Do not leave it to chance. Spend money to have peace of mind. And relatives or employees of the animal shelter will help you with this-this is the second question. The main thing because you have already decided!
  2. happilyretired
    Interesting that this appeared, since I've been thinking about this lately. When I had my first cat (who adopted ME), no one liked her except me--even her vet found her 'difficult.' I feared that if she outlived me, no one would want her, so I searched until I found a friend (a dog breeder/animal lover) who agreed to take her if anything happened to me.

    I adopted my third cat reluctantly because I'd just lost a cat and didn't think I was ready for another. But he was miserable in the shelter, having been dumped there by relatives after his owner died--(he was 7 years old)-they all claimed to be 'allergic.' When I had him checked by my vet, he had so many minor 'issues' that my vet thought were stress related from his shelter days. I only had him 2 years before he succumbed to renal failure, which I think was brought on by all that stress.

    Because of that poor guy, I am more determined that my present cat (a rescue) have a good home should I die before her. She doesn't like most people, but she seems to like my cat sitter (and her husband), and since they're neighbors, I plan to ask them if they will take her if I die. I think they are 'pet less' at the moment, and that's important because my girl needs to be an 'only'--doesn't like other cats or dogs.
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  3. lolliegoth
    I became the owner of my Mothers cat when she passed (kinda came with the house that I inherited with my Brother). We discussed what to do with both (the house and the cat) and decided whilst I stayed there I would look after the cat. Seven years later I have not just a house and my Princess but two other cats. Have discussed who will take them on when I go and that person is also their kitter sitter and close family friend. Can be a hard convo but necessary - also agree about access in emergencies. I have keylock and only two people know the code - my brother and kitter sitter.
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  4. golondrina
    When I adopted 4 years old Sombra my eldest grandson (married, with two adolescent children) engaged himself with the Shelter to adopt her after my death. A person from the Shelter inspected his home and met him and his family before agreeing to the adoption by me.

    My grandson and his family often visit me. When the time comes they will have been well acquainted.
    1. tarasgirl06
      You have wonderful family members, @golondrina. For most of us, this is not the case. I've seen it too many times in my advocacy work. But I am so glad you can have the peace of mind of knowing your grandson is serious about caring for Sombra should the need arise. <3
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  5. tnbsp
    I always secretly worry my husband and I will die when we arent home, like in a car crash, and no one will know my two cats need food... it freaks me out.
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    1. tarasgirl06
      You can arrange with a trusted relative, friend, neighbor, or cat-sitter to contact you and if you do not respond, that they be able to enter your home, feed your cats and care for them.
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    3. CoolBlkCats
      I carry an index card next to my driver's lic that states: "I have pets at home. If I am injured, call .... to care for my animals" It's my friends and she has a house key already.
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  6. tarasgirl06
    THANK YOU for this article that every cat caregiver should read and copy and keep. NEVER trust family members or friends to care for your cat should they outlive you. What a person says and what they do are most often two very different things. No matter how much you think the person cares for you and/or your cats, DON'T DO IT. I work in cat advocacy and I have seen tragedy occur all too many times when the family members/friends turn out to have lied and deceived. And make absolutely sure you have a LEGAL plan in place for your beloved family members. Don't leave it to chance. Spend the money to have the peace of mind.
    1. lolliegoth
      I think your statement about trusting family members or friends is a bit strong. Agree their should be plans in place but some of us have actually given up relationships and thousands of dollars of our own to care for our deceased relatives pets.
    2. purrs123
      I agree mostly with you. And I also agree somewhat with lolliegoth, too. It totally depends on the family member and whether they love animals or not. I don't trust my family members to care for my pets if I die, but I also don't have anyone else I trust, either. I haven't even bothered to make a will because there is no one I trust to carry out my wishes. This is WHY I have pets...humans can't be trusted. I have no idea what would happen to my pets (two cats & a dog) if I die before them. I have a medical ID bracelet with a web page link to all my info including about caring for my pets, but I don't trust anyone to actually check it if I die.
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  7. Nursemike3
    Thank you for this. I had trouble answering this question on a shelter application. I have lung cancer (never smoker) and I had three lobes of lung removed. The cancer came back last year and radiation did not work and my kidneys will not tolerate chemo. I am still working full time because I have no family. I worry that if I die before my senior cats, something horrible would happen, I had told my landlord that if anything did happen to me, please take my cats to-----shelter. The shelter is a no cage no kill facility.
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