Hello!
I feel like I’m having a bit of a feline crisis.
My best friend in this whole wide world is my beloved 12 year old Russian Blue cat, Minka.
Current status for context:
She has grown up with me in my family home with unrestricted access to the outdoors, in an area that has lots of nature and not a lot of roads.
She has always seemed to spend a good amount of time outdoors throughout her life, whilst ultimately preferring to be indoors for company and to sleep. (probably more time indoors than outdoors, but still went outdoors every day).
Since she has gotten older, for the last 2 years but particularly this past year, she has spent the largest majority of her time indoors, resting and sleeping and wanting cuddles and affection.
Vets have said she’s physically fit and healthy.
My problem is:
I haven’t lived at my family house properly for 4/5years after leaving home for studies, though during that period I have on-and-off been home, sometimes for many months at a time.
This means I haven’t been able to see her everyday for a long time now.
However, she still wants to be in my room when I’m not there and will always seek me out whenever I am home, gravitating towards me as her ‘person’. (and she is my beloved, beautiful, wonderful cat ((( )
I have recently moved into a city apartment on the 4th floor of a large complex. I have seen that others have house cats in this building.
I am so desperately wanting to bring her with me whilst I live here (I’m here for a 12 month contract, possibly longer if I choose to stay - however I would bring her back to my family home if I end up moving home too often in a short span of time).
I’m well aware of the fact that outdoors cats transitioning to being solely indoors isn’t good for them, and I am absolutely devoted to not causing her any harm or stress.
I was wondering though, because she is older now and more preferable to being indoors - would she be safe, happy and okay with living with me in my flat? I wouldn’t let her outside due to the roads and other unfamiliar dangers, so I’d make my apartment a cozy, safe cat haven with items she’d love.
If she’s used to having outdoors access and that associated freedom, would she be likely to be miserable in my flat? The flat consists of a separate bedroom and a living room with an open plan kitchen.
Please let me know your opinions, because my heart always aches with missing her and I’m so, so worried that she’ll spend her remaining years without me to give her love and affection every day. (my parents don’t spend much time with her).
I feel like I’m having a bit of a feline crisis.
My best friend in this whole wide world is my beloved 12 year old Russian Blue cat, Minka.
Current status for context:
She has grown up with me in my family home with unrestricted access to the outdoors, in an area that has lots of nature and not a lot of roads.
She has always seemed to spend a good amount of time outdoors throughout her life, whilst ultimately preferring to be indoors for company and to sleep. (probably more time indoors than outdoors, but still went outdoors every day).
Since she has gotten older, for the last 2 years but particularly this past year, she has spent the largest majority of her time indoors, resting and sleeping and wanting cuddles and affection.
Vets have said she’s physically fit and healthy.
My problem is:
I haven’t lived at my family house properly for 4/5years after leaving home for studies, though during that period I have on-and-off been home, sometimes for many months at a time.
This means I haven’t been able to see her everyday for a long time now.
However, she still wants to be in my room when I’m not there and will always seek me out whenever I am home, gravitating towards me as her ‘person’. (and she is my beloved, beautiful, wonderful cat ((( )
I have recently moved into a city apartment on the 4th floor of a large complex. I have seen that others have house cats in this building.
I am so desperately wanting to bring her with me whilst I live here (I’m here for a 12 month contract, possibly longer if I choose to stay - however I would bring her back to my family home if I end up moving home too often in a short span of time).
I’m well aware of the fact that outdoors cats transitioning to being solely indoors isn’t good for them, and I am absolutely devoted to not causing her any harm or stress.
I was wondering though, because she is older now and more preferable to being indoors - would she be safe, happy and okay with living with me in my flat? I wouldn’t let her outside due to the roads and other unfamiliar dangers, so I’d make my apartment a cozy, safe cat haven with items she’d love.
If she’s used to having outdoors access and that associated freedom, would she be likely to be miserable in my flat? The flat consists of a separate bedroom and a living room with an open plan kitchen.
Please let me know your opinions, because my heart always aches with missing her and I’m so, so worried that she’ll spend her remaining years without me to give her love and affection every day. (my parents don’t spend much time with her).