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As some of you may know my little girl smoak was put down on Wednesday, leaving her 6 month brother behind.
Hes already passed the stage where he searches for her and cries, he seems to be at the depressed acceptance stage. He is eating and playing, but not as much as before, and he has gone from sitting on my lap to sitting on my feet (randomly). I know that now is too soon to get him a new companion, we are all still in mourning, but it is something we want to do.
Question is around timescales. If we leave it too long I worry he'll get too used to being the only cat here, but too soon and I run the risk of resentment. Is there an average I can go by, or is it more a feeling?
Hes already passed the stage where he searches for her and cries, he seems to be at the depressed acceptance stage. He is eating and playing, but not as much as before, and he has gone from sitting on my lap to sitting on my feet (randomly). I know that now is too soon to get him a new companion, we are all still in mourning, but it is something we want to do.
Question is around timescales. If we leave it too long I worry he'll get too used to being the only cat here, but too soon and I run the risk of resentment. Is there an average I can go by, or is it more a feeling?