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We have a cat, Max, who we can't touch. We're not used to that-- we've done a lot of rescue, and have a couple cats with some obvious PTSD issues, but not being able to touch a cat isn't part of our experience.
Max came inside after I trapped him and his sister as kittens (in our backyard-- maybe 5 months old). He was harder to trap than her, so he might have been more traumatized by that event. We brought them both in and isolated them for a few weeks (worms, etc.). We've had them inside 2+ years. They both get along with our other cats wonderfully. His sister, Sam, is a LOVE. She's the sweetest cat ever. Max, though, won't let us touch him. He'll even hiss if we get too close or startle him. I can put food down in front of him, but that's about it. He loves his sister and gets along wonderfully with our other furbabies-- he's very good with our blind cat.
But now he has constant crystals (had his urine tested, no infection) and is peeing everywhere! And we've NEVER had that happen. We had him on 6 weeks of Hills Science diet and crystals didn't go away, so now we're trying the Purina prescription diet. It's hard to give it to him bc we can't just scoop him up and isolate him in the bathroom to eat. He eats in the bedroom with his sister, but then he has to be watched so he doesn't steal her food. It's a pain, and very stressful for him and us. If we had to give him meds, we wouldn't be able to unless we could get it into his food.
We have tried touching him. I closed the door on him in the bathroom once and tried to give him sardines. He hissed and growled so badly, I ended up super upset that I upset him so much, and let him out.
We're thinking he's miserable with us, and might do better in another home. Honestly, we're not sure what to do at all. Any advice?
Max came inside after I trapped him and his sister as kittens (in our backyard-- maybe 5 months old). He was harder to trap than her, so he might have been more traumatized by that event. We brought them both in and isolated them for a few weeks (worms, etc.). We've had them inside 2+ years. They both get along with our other cats wonderfully. His sister, Sam, is a LOVE. She's the sweetest cat ever. Max, though, won't let us touch him. He'll even hiss if we get too close or startle him. I can put food down in front of him, but that's about it. He loves his sister and gets along wonderfully with our other furbabies-- he's very good with our blind cat.
But now he has constant crystals (had his urine tested, no infection) and is peeing everywhere! And we've NEVER had that happen. We had him on 6 weeks of Hills Science diet and crystals didn't go away, so now we're trying the Purina prescription diet. It's hard to give it to him bc we can't just scoop him up and isolate him in the bathroom to eat. He eats in the bedroom with his sister, but then he has to be watched so he doesn't steal her food. It's a pain, and very stressful for him and us. If we had to give him meds, we wouldn't be able to unless we could get it into his food.
We have tried touching him. I closed the door on him in the bathroom once and tried to give him sardines. He hissed and growled so badly, I ended up super upset that I upset him so much, and let him out.
We're thinking he's miserable with us, and might do better in another home. Honestly, we're not sure what to do at all. Any advice?