...to bring a new companion home.
I lost my previous companion, Connor, to cancer late last summer. He was a great cat and the loss hit pretty hard. I've never been able to simply go and get another cat when the previous one departs, so instead I lavished my attention on my mom's new cat Misha, who was adopted just days after his loss. Our house is divided into two apartments and Connor had the run of the entire place because, well, what Connor wanted Connor got. Misha's only visited my apartment a few times, as I knew I would be adopting again eventually and didn't want her to get too comfortable. But anyway, the point is that my house has been quiet and empty for awhile now.
But now the renovations in my apartment are nearly complete and I find my thoughts turning increasingly toward cats once more. I came back here and have been reading all kinds of threads, just because. I've spent an unhealthy amount of time on Petfinder just looking, scouting it out. I've already picked out a couple of potential adoptees--figure with kitten season it will be slow going for adults, and I only need a week or two before I'm ready anyway. Kittens are great--when they belong to someone else.
I much prefer to have a mellow chill buddy, myself. Connor was that and then some.
So that got me to thinking a little bit--do you have a specific sign that tells you when you're ready? My subconscious seems to know better than I. I barely even gave it any thought until the past couple of weeks and now I'm all but consumed by excitement at the idea of having a companion again.
I lost my previous companion, Connor, to cancer late last summer. He was a great cat and the loss hit pretty hard. I've never been able to simply go and get another cat when the previous one departs, so instead I lavished my attention on my mom's new cat Misha, who was adopted just days after his loss. Our house is divided into two apartments and Connor had the run of the entire place because, well, what Connor wanted Connor got. Misha's only visited my apartment a few times, as I knew I would be adopting again eventually and didn't want her to get too comfortable. But anyway, the point is that my house has been quiet and empty for awhile now.
But now the renovations in my apartment are nearly complete and I find my thoughts turning increasingly toward cats once more. I came back here and have been reading all kinds of threads, just because. I've spent an unhealthy amount of time on Petfinder just looking, scouting it out. I've already picked out a couple of potential adoptees--figure with kitten season it will be slow going for adults, and I only need a week or two before I'm ready anyway. Kittens are great--when they belong to someone else.
So that got me to thinking a little bit--do you have a specific sign that tells you when you're ready? My subconscious seems to know better than I. I barely even gave it any thought until the past couple of weeks and now I'm all but consumed by excitement at the idea of having a companion again.