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Don't apologize, I appreciate all of what you say. I really do. I'm just as concerned and frustrated right now myself, if not more. I honestly wasn't aware of the serious risks, which is my fault. What could you recommend to get her to eat more? She did eat more if it was kibble or wet food, but this (according to my mom), she just eats a little and is done. She doesn't complain or ask for more either until way later. So she either really isn't hungry (which I don't know why), or she doesn't like it and just chooses to eat less because of it.I will be very honest with you right now. I am 100% pro raw... IF done SAFELY. But if not, I rather have the cat on kibbles. Raw is not a diet to be cutting corners. An overweight cat who drops too much weight too fast can go into hepatic lipidosis FAST. And that is deadly. So, if weighing the cat is too much, especially when she has a scale at the house, when that can be matter of life and death, the only thing I can tell you is consider this very carefully.... The last thing you want is this kitty to get sick for going off food.... And it will happen if she continues to eat this little and drop this amount of weight.
If I were you, I would have a serious talk with your mom about this, with ALL this diet takes- it is a disservice to sugar-coat, IMHO, and go from there. If she is not up to it, then you have a decision to make; either you take the cat with you to feed raw, wait for another time and feed kibbles for now, or continue to feed raw and deal with the consequences.... But be careful....
Sorry for my complete honesty here, but this is for the health and well being of your cat.
Well my mom said that she only acts hungry at "meal time" which is multiple times a day. Like she won't ask for food, but gets excited when my mom brings the food out. But, again, she only eats about 1/4 of a medallion's worth of food at each meal, and my mom said that she won't go much higher than a full medallion's worth even if she tries to do more and more meals.I'm going to have to agree with Carolina.If she's not eating enough - and acting hungry when offered food, but not eating enough....
Aren't you moving into a new home? Rather than get new kittens, what about bringing your cat home with you?Sorry - I don't remember the backstory here.
I left my cat with my mom when I moved out because I couldn't bring her with me to where I was staying at. As I've mentioned, my boyfriend and I are moving into an apartment together at the end of the month that allows pets, and I would bring her. But, after leaving her for over a year, she's really attached to my mom (of course when I visit she loves me and hasn't changed), and she's the only "part" of me that I left with my mom. I would feel guilty taking that away and leaving my mom alone. Seeing as she was so crushed when I left in the first place. I know that isn't much of an excuse, but it's hard to really do that now. And my cat is easily prone to behavioral problems from stress (she wanted to mark everything after we moved to a new apartment), and I can only imagine how stressed she'll get from a 7+ hour drive to a new home with me, who she hasn't lived with in over a year.
On a side note: I'm talking to my mom right now via Facebook. She's willing to add something to her food to help her eat more. I recommended a grain-free wet food since she does seem to take to any yummy smelling wet food (as most do). Will she still get a lot of the benefits of eating raw if she was eating something like half raw and half grain-free canned?