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I have a two year old cat, Rue, that was rescued when she was about 9 weeks old. She was found by the animal control in a park - feral mother. I lived alone with her for the most part up until about a year and a half ago. I always had visitors and such. She didn’t have a problem when she was little. Now, she’s awful with any visitor. She likes my boyfriend - she seems to be better with men. I’m her person first and foremost though - she loves and trusts me 100%. She hisses and hides when anyone comes over. At first it was only my nephew who was pretty little when she was small. I thought it was because he was loud and always running. Now she still hates him even though he’s older and leaves her alone. She hisses so much she looks so stressed out. I feel so bad.
We got a kitten who is now about 5 months old (Remi). He is so sweet and cuddly. He loves all visitors and always wants to play with Rue. Sometimes she allows a little play but she always starts hissing at him and running away. He takes the running as an invite to play more... then they have it out. She hisses and goes nuts. He rolls around with her he never hisses - it’s like he doesn’t recognize that she doesn’t want to play.
I don’t know what to do for her. When she’s really hissing at visitors I pick her up and take her into another room. She usually just melts into me, like it was SUCH a stressor for her, she just gets so worked up. Like I said, she NEVER hisses at me. She feels very safe.
I’ve heard about pheromones to help with stress.... I’m willing to try anything! She is miserable when it’s not just her and I or my boyfriend around.
HELP!
We got a kitten who is now about 5 months old (Remi). He is so sweet and cuddly. He loves all visitors and always wants to play with Rue. Sometimes she allows a little play but she always starts hissing at him and running away. He takes the running as an invite to play more... then they have it out. She hisses and goes nuts. He rolls around with her he never hisses - it’s like he doesn’t recognize that she doesn’t want to play.
I don’t know what to do for her. When she’s really hissing at visitors I pick her up and take her into another room. She usually just melts into me, like it was SUCH a stressor for her, she just gets so worked up. Like I said, she NEVER hisses at me. She feels very safe.
I’ve heard about pheromones to help with stress.... I’m willing to try anything! She is miserable when it’s not just her and I or my boyfriend around.
HELP!