So, some backstory: I was gifted this cat when he was a kitten, about 10 weeks old (he's 16 months now), and he's no stranger to humans at all. But at the time I received him, I didn't have any way of taking care of him, so the person who got him for me has been housing him in her home with 9 other cats (yes, she is absolutely a crazy cat lady). As such, he's used to human company, but not so much to human affection.
And I am a very affectionate human.
I've also done this before with another cat. She was about the same age as he is now when we first got her, and she was raised in a shelter since she was a kitten; so background-wise, she was not too much different from him. She opened up a lot in the time that we had her, and even after 5 years, she was still changing and opening up. Unfortunately, in April of this year, she was attacked by dogs and didn't make it... So now it's just me and my new-ish cat, who I should be getting in less than a week.
SO, all of that to say, how should I train my new kitty to receive affection? I know with adult cats, it takes longer to socialize them than with kittens, but I'm wondering if there are any methods or helpful tricks that will make it easier for the both of us. The last cat warmed up to me through my own sheer stubbornness, but I didn't really know what I was doing. This time, I'd like to be a little more prepared.
Any articles, videos, or just straight advice would be great. I can also provide more info if needed.
And I am a very affectionate human.
I've also done this before with another cat. She was about the same age as he is now when we first got her, and she was raised in a shelter since she was a kitten; so background-wise, she was not too much different from him. She opened up a lot in the time that we had her, and even after 5 years, she was still changing and opening up. Unfortunately, in April of this year, she was attacked by dogs and didn't make it... So now it's just me and my new-ish cat, who I should be getting in less than a week.
SO, all of that to say, how should I train my new kitty to receive affection? I know with adult cats, it takes longer to socialize them than with kittens, but I'm wondering if there are any methods or helpful tricks that will make it easier for the both of us. The last cat warmed up to me through my own sheer stubbornness, but I didn't really know what I was doing. This time, I'd like to be a little more prepared.
Any articles, videos, or just straight advice would be great. I can also provide more info if needed.