hello! I'm new and I need help.
I was able to catch 5 feral cats: 4 kittens and the Mom. the babies are doing fine and somewhat warmed up to me. but Mom... that's a different story... I keep them all together and unfortunately they have to be caged.... I feel bad for that, but they got away once (i did not secure the walls in the cage) and did not come out when I was there. I was able to get them back in the cage, but it took me 2 days to catch Mom using the trap... she's very nervous and upset. when I'm feeding them, I am able to open the cage and babies come closer and let me even pet them a little. She stays back and growls quietly. when I clean the cage, take out litter box and collect bowls, she hisses and she tried to attack me few times. I'm suppose to bring her in on Monday (Jan. 17) to the vet's for check up and spaying. and I have no idea how I'm going to get her out of the cage and into the carrier... frankly speaking, i'm affraid of her. she's rather a big cat and those claws... i don't want to hurt her and don't want to be hurt by her. I know i have to get the babies out first (using food); it's just one of them, the smallest - probably female always stays very close to Mom; she's the most shy and I don't know if she comes out when needed... how should I approach her and the Mom on Monday? any advice? do you guys think if there's a chance Mom calms down after being spayed? maybe when babies are not around anymore, she becomes more mellow? what do I do if not? I can't keep her because I have already 2 cats (one of them with special needs). any suggestions?
I was able to catch 5 feral cats: 4 kittens and the Mom. the babies are doing fine and somewhat warmed up to me. but Mom... that's a different story... I keep them all together and unfortunately they have to be caged.... I feel bad for that, but they got away once (i did not secure the walls in the cage) and did not come out when I was there. I was able to get them back in the cage, but it took me 2 days to catch Mom using the trap... she's very nervous and upset. when I'm feeding them, I am able to open the cage and babies come closer and let me even pet them a little. She stays back and growls quietly. when I clean the cage, take out litter box and collect bowls, she hisses and she tried to attack me few times. I'm suppose to bring her in on Monday (Jan. 17) to the vet's for check up and spaying. and I have no idea how I'm going to get her out of the cage and into the carrier... frankly speaking, i'm affraid of her. she's rather a big cat and those claws... i don't want to hurt her and don't want to be hurt by her. I know i have to get the babies out first (using food); it's just one of them, the smallest - probably female always stays very close to Mom; she's the most shy and I don't know if she comes out when needed... how should I approach her and the Mom on Monday? any advice? do you guys think if there's a chance Mom calms down after being spayed? maybe when babies are not around anymore, she becomes more mellow? what do I do if not? I can't keep her because I have already 2 cats (one of them with special needs). any suggestions?