I'm new to the forum ... and I need some help. My 16-year-old Siamese (Bailey) is quickly declining in health. She's not eating, barely drinking, is growing weak, loses her balance at times, ... and I don't want her to suffer. I hope I don't offend too many of you ... but I know that it's her time ... and I was just hoping there was something I could do at home vs. going to the vet ~ to save her all of the extra commotion. Has anyone done anything like this before?