my friend has a cat she is about 25!!! and for about 3 yrs now looks like she is going to die any second!!! she is skin and bones, cries and sounds like death, falls over as she walks, cant walk up the stairs,has to be hand fed, sleeps all day cant run or jump...i guess him and i both being cat lovers see diff on this but i think its kind of cruel to not put her down! i mean she has had a long happy life why not put her out of her misery? he says he couldnt do that to her and i can understand to a certain point but i think this has gone a bit too far? i would like to hear both sides on this issue.