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I am so, so sorry for your loss.  It must have been very difficult to cope with such a sudden decline in your little guy's health.  Sending you love and holding your hand (virtually) in your grief.

Thank you, all of you, for all of your thoughts and kind words.  It really does help. It was a week ago yesterday that he passed.  I sat where he died, and looked at pictures of him, and cried.  When I feel bad, I wear his collar around my wrist and this helps to calm me a little.   I am...

I am thinking of you today.  It is hard when you pass these grief milestones. I don't think it was your fault at all.  Your cat was very ill.  You did everything that you could.  I highly doubt that first aid would have helped him.  The fact that he was getting colder tells you that he was gone...

Oh, you poor love. That is such a lot to go through in a short time.   I wanted to say that I understand that you feel guilty now, but that what happened wasn't your fault.  It was an awful, horrible accident.  Some kittens are just very prone to getting themselves into trouble, and sadly there...

Thank you all so much for your kind words.  It helps to hear that the pain will lessen in time, even though it doesn't feel like things will ever be right again at the moment.  Someone once told me that you don't get over grief - you just learn to live with the absence in a new way, like a tree...

I know what you mean.  It is hard when you are with them all the time.  You get used to their whole routine, and you build your day around them - and then there is this blank emptiness when they aren't there.   I want to hold him so badly one more time. One of the best pieces of advice I have...

My poor little boy, Polly, died last Thursday of lymphoma.  I loved him so much.  I am finding the pain unbearable.  

Oh Dalimili, I feel your pain and I wanted to say that you are not alone. My cat died last Thursday.  He had lymphoma and he had started to struggle to breathe.  Even though I had a terminal diagnosis, and I knew he was going to die since January, it felt rushed and like a living nightmare at...

My poor boy died last week.  A vet came out to the house.  We buried him during the eclipse, which felt very fitting. It was the worst thing I've ever had to do and I am really, really not coping right now.  

OK, here's my story about this - but please don't think that anything horrible is going to happen to your cat.  The moral of the story is that this is stress-behaviour, not a sign of impending doom!   My cat did this for years in my old house, which was in a godawful rural village near Barnsley...

I think cats react differently to sedation and anaesthetic. My sister says that her cat goes completely mental like yours.  If you are fearful for the cat's wellbeing, it might be as well to shut her in a room with lots of soft things and nothing that she can break! It can go on for 2-3 days...

I used it when I moved.  My cat took one sniff at it, turned around, and did a wee all over the plug in!!   Lots of other people have had good results, though!

Oh Jamie, that sounds so traumatic for you and your girlfriend.  You must be in shock.  I hope that you can take some quiet time tonight to look after each other. I know that the natural thing to do in these situations is to ask 'Why?' Why did this happen?'  Because it's so unfair!  The thing...

Polly went to the vet this morning and we had a final discussion about treatment options. The vet pulled up lots of data from different cats that the practice has treated to show us the difference between chemo and steroids in cats of a comparable age.  It looks like Polly would only get a...

I'm so sorry Greysalt.  My 15 year old cat was also just diagnosed with large cell lymphoma.  It is absolutely heartbreaking. In my case, I am in the process of deciding about chemo vs steroid treatment.  The vet's steer is that he is quite elderly and has some comorbidities and that chemo...

Thank you all so very much for the kind words, thoughts, hugs and advice.  My cat is called Apollo, but I mostly call him Polly.  It leads to a few raised eyebrows sometimes!! I am seeing the vet tomorrow and will run through the options with him again.  He is a local vet, but I live in a big...

Just to add - if you suspect hyperthyroidism, as you do, I wouldn't wait to see a vet.  It doesn't go away, and the longer you leave it, the more strain you will be putting on your dear little kitty's organs.  Just because a cat is eating a bit more doesn't mean they are entirely well.  

I am sorry you are facing this. If it is a thyroid problem, then that is very treatable in cats.     My cat has had hyperthyroidism for years.  He had exactly the same symptoms.  I took him to the vet and a simple bloodtest confirmed it.  It didn't cost much money to get a diagnosis.   He has...