Update:
I took two days off just to take care of him and watch what really is happening here when I'm gone.
First of all he has scratching post but no tree.. He has other places to climb and they are high enough.
I took a little of the advices from here..
I closed the window and bought a...
I don't let him out.. I thought about it because i thought maybe he is lonely but it's really dangerous outside.
The cat's name is tigre ..it's tiger in italian.
I'm from israel originally but I'm studying medicine in italy.
I'm really worried about him ..he stopped purring and i think maybe...
Update :
So i decided to take the day off to see what's really happening while I'm gone.
Apparently there is a cat coming to the window everyday.. My cat just sits there sniffing.
Also he is afraid of every noise he hears outside ,i closed the window .
I don't know what to do about the other...
I bought feliway and plugged it in ..waiting for results.
I think i will shut the window and try to see maybe the problem is outside.
He is not neutered but i asked the vet to book an appointment to do it.
I will be patient even though it's hard sometimes but i am never going to give up on him.
There is a window in the kitchen that he likes to sit on for a long period of time and just watch.
I figured it's better if i keep the window open so he have fresh air (there is bars on the window).
That never scared him but maybe he is smelling somthing out there?
If he hears someone or a car...
Thank you all for helping me..
It's me and him alone in the apartment,sometimes friends come but I let him hide and he comes out only if wants to.
He have a scratching post, three warm places to sleep.
He prefet to sleep on the bed next to me.
When I'm walkin in the apartment most of the time...
4 months ago i adopted a 4 year old cat after owners wanted to give up on him.
It took him a week to get used to me and we bonded perfectly..
In Recent weeks he is so anxious ,he stopped purring completely and my hands full of scratches and bites.
He is sleeping in a box most of the time...