my resident cat has been showing aggression to us sine intro of new kitten! no one has had similar experience. Vet says hes fine physically and to plug feliways back in and add calming collar. No change. She calls it hyper vigilance. My resident cat always feels on guard , on high alert. Dr...
I get this. He must have an extreme case. I should add I’m in a condo. Smaller space. So he’s having to share territory too.
I’m guessing my clothes must smell of the kitten and maybe on the walk he gets a whiff? It’s scary cuz we are outside. And it’s hard to control him in that state. I have...
I do agree that it is a form of redirected aggression, but articles i have read make it sound like the aggression is quick and and impulsive. All referring to the cat sitting in the window seeing another cat then impulsively hissing or swatting at you. Most articles stating to remove the...
Thank you, i am going to research it. Im hesitant on the calming collar, do you think that's phermone overload with 2 feliway plugged in?
I pray this is temporary. I just want to be able to have time with mookie.
It happens even when i have him exclusively.
First thing in am when its just him and I, i can pet, but cant pick up or cuddle and petting is brief. When he walks by i can pet but its with him running away. when i open the window for him to sit in in am, no kitten around, we usually have a sweet...
Thank you for your reply.
Luna was kept in my daughters room for a week, mookie was slowly introduced with luna in crate and mookie on leash. Then mookie in crate and luna checking him out. This went on for 2 weeks. mookie would roll around the crate when luna was inside and then leave toys at...
I've had Mookie for 3 years. He is so loved and so chill. We introduced a female kitten, Luna to our home on 8/8. I have followed all the rules, slow introduction, separate food bowls, 3 litter boxes, plugged in 2 Feliway.
Mookie is tolerant and sweet to the new kitten. They play, chase, stalk...
Thank you for all your words of wisdom and sympathies. Some people don't understand the loss or the grief that comes with it. "Oh your cat ?" ,"she was just a cat" , or many other ignorant statements. I grieve a grief not may understand. I think when she was dying that's why I sought this group...
My Lily girl purred til the end yesterday, 12,/12/16.
They say a cats love is earned. She wasn't your conforming , cuddly, needy cat. She did her thing, was elusive and snobby. Given space, respect and love, she became my "go to girl " for love and quiet support.she was not happy when I brought...
Lily went peacefully this morning at the vet. She was anemic, dehydrated and the vet said she had a hard lump in her stomach, maybe cancer? She was a huge part of my life. 18 years, she saw me thru 2 kids , a divorce, 2 homes, a death of my parent and my kidney surgery.
Honestly, just a best...
I have a 10o clock appt. today. In a perfect world, they will give her a shot and my girl will be young again!
I am sure it's time.
1st time on site, not sure if my replies are going out. Thank you for your replies
Hi lily has been losing weight and some teeth for awhile. She lately has become less active and is peeing but not defecating. Still purrs,wobbles to her dish, jumps up on couch.
I can tell it's all systems down in a few days and don't want her in pain. She is dehydrated and bloated. Thank you...
My 18 year old cat has been failing in health for over a week. They say or I have heard I will know when it's time to go to vet. I just need that kick in the butt or another view.
I do plan to do euthanasia,