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    Cat hates carrier - nothing has worked

    We will try this, thank you! Glad it was easier on your boy. ☺
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    Cat hates carrier - nothing has worked

    This is a great idea, thank you! And yes, I know exactly what you mean about 4 legs suddenly becoming a dozen. I have scars all down my chest from previous vet trips 🙃
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    Cat hates carrier - nothing has worked

    It's funny that you mention this because I LITERALLY just got off the phone with the vet about her bloodwork. Since she might need more testing, they're prescribing her gabapentin to take before she has to come in. Fingers crossed that that takes the edge off.
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    Cat hates carrier - nothing has worked

    Yes, I thought that was my solution! They came yesterday and they were lovely. But my cat was just as upset. I feel terrible making her stressed but she does need to get medical care.
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    Cat hates carrier - nothing has worked

    We have tried multiple types, unfortunately. :confused: My thought was that she’d do well with a soft-sided or top-loading carrier but it was just as unsuccessful. The vet also discovered that she is unusual for a cat in that a towel makes her MORE anxious and upset. She doesn’t love strangers...
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    Cat hates carrier - nothing has worked

    Hi everyone - One of my cats is EXTREMELY unwilling to get into the carrier for the vet. We have tried everything - leaving it out (we actually have four carriers that are out at all times), using Feliway, putting treats in it, putting in blankets that smell like us - and nothing works. She's...
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    New Kitten + Older Cat Issues

    Just an update: as of today, they're playing with each other happily. I think our resident cat can get irritated at the kitten but the initial aggression and fear seems to be gone. And they sound like a herd of elephants.
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    Kitten Cries If Left Alone...help!

    I have been doing that the past few nights. :) He is so sweet. This is the first night I'm trying not to. I'm going to buy a heartbeat toy, too. You've had so many helpful suggestions, thank you!!
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    Kitten Cries If Left Alone...help!

    Oh great idea, thank you! Is it OK to let him cry, though? I mean if none of these interventions fully does the trick. My husband has been telling me that he'll learn that he's safe eventually and be able to self-soothe.
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    Kitten Cries If Left Alone...help!

    Hi! I tried the heating pad last night, which he definitely enjoyed. But I ended up taking it out - our only working outlet in that room is midway up the wall (thanks, old houses), so the wires were hanging down asking to be chewed on. Maybe I'll try some music, it does seem like it makes him...
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    Kitten Cries If Left Alone...help!

    Hi everyone - I've recently been asking a lot of questions here about my new kitten, Ralph. Right now I'm beside myself because I have him in his safe room and he won't stop crying. I feel like the worst person on earth. He needs to stay in his safe room because 1. He's 8 weeks old and I...
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    New Kitten + Older Cat Issues

    @kissthisangel Thank you for the advice and reassurance. We’ve probably been rushing it a little since the new kitten gets upset when he’s left in his safe room. I think it will be okay. Our resident cat is back to being very friendly with us and totally bounces back when they have some...
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    New Kitten + Older Cat Issues

    Hi everyone, My husband and I recently brought home an 8-week-old kitten, Ralph. Our other cat, Maya, is a year old and has been with us for about 9 months. I've read a lot of the forums on this site about introductions, separation anxiety, etc., but I just wanted some more input as we have a...
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    Swollen Belly And Lethargy

    Thanks for the advice everyone. We got in touch with the vet this morning and worked out a plan. And, thankfully, she is nearly 100% back to normal today - whizzing around our house and nearly no belly. Never thought I’d be so relieved for her to be a pain in the butt!
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    Swollen Belly And Lethargy

    That’s what my gut tells me, too. I think I will tomorrow. Why would you?
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    Swollen Belly And Lethargy

    Hi everyone - I noticed today that my 6 month old kitten has a swollen belly (I’ve attached two pictures). This just started today. She also is acting more cuddly and lethargic than is typical for her. We did just start free-feeding her with dry food yesterday, and she housed a giant portion...
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    Playing, Assertive, Or Just A Brat?

    Hi everyone - I have a female kitten at home who is ~6-7 months old (her age at adoption was uncertain). She is very pleasant, intelligent, confident, friendly, and overall a great pet and buddy to us. HOWEVER. Her confidence and intelligence has been coming with some drawbacks - namely...
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    Loose Stool Or...??

    Hi everyone, I recently transitioned my cat from dry food over to a grain-free wet food on the advice of my vet. I probably did it a bit too quickly, just over the course of a few days. In terms of my cat liking the food, it’s gone very well - now she’s a total pain in the morning until I feed...
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    Am I Doing Enough?

    Thank you, and thanks for the link!! I’m an anxious person by nature so I just want to make sure I’m doing it all correctly.
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    Am I Doing Enough?

    Hi everyone, I recently brought home a kitten from a shelter - she is about five or six months but small for her age (we were told she was 3-4!). She’s been in the home for a few weeks now and is overall adjusting very well. I just would like some reassurance that I’m doing enough to make...
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