We have two big balconies, one faces a street one a huge garden. In the garden there are a lot of outside cats Im sure he has spotted some of them already. And birds, of course. I dont think there are animals.
I think he does like laser pointer. As I said above, he plays catching the dot with...
My bf plays laser pointer with him and he seems to find it fun. He chased a green dot for 20 minutes yesterday, so I guess the laser pointer is a thing, but he just doesnt want me to be the one with the pointer in the hand.
He has a full choice of toys but at the moment throwing things off...
I played laser pointer with him today but he refused. He is very clingly to my bf and ignores me. I can understand.
My bf knows how I feel - he still feels like I overreact. Today I was at the doctor to receive treatment for bites from Gustl and all he had to say was, that it is my own fault...
My psychistrist is a medical doctor you‘re right - he’s not a therapist. I have had CBT in the past but had to quit last year because insurance wouldnt cover it anymore. Thats why I joined the support group. I will try for another cover though. Ive spend my last savings for Kurt and I dont work...
Thank you for telling me your story. Im sorry you had to go through this. I know how tempting it is to look for ways which will keep you from dealing with the source of the problems. I said trigger because I think he is one. But I act the way I act because I am afraid that if I dont do something...
I dont know how it works where you live, maybe it is different, but I see him every 3-4 weeks for 50 minutes. Its not a short visit. I also visit a support group for another mental health issue.
But there lies the problem. I wont have a cat on my own - not with Gustl. As I described above, he has trouble with other cats and there is only a very small chance of finding another cat he will accept. He has met 5 different cats of all ages and gender before (except kittens) and he was...
I don't think that you are capable of rating my maturity level because we had a brief encounter on the internet. First of all, I do not want to argue you with, I didn't mean to in my first reply, I do not mean to now. But your answer sounds very sharp to me- and again, sorry if I am wrong - but...
Thank you for your own story and you point of view. I disagree with one statement though. I dont think it is better to „ditch the bf“ rather than the cat. We‘ve been together for 5 years and we‘re getting married in September. To be honest, this comment hurt me. To me it means that my needs and...
@rubysmama I dont know much about him. He is 5 and was born in the UAE. His former owner left him and he was left to his own, but I am not quite sure if that means he was a stray cat.
To me he lacks soft big eyes and cuteness. I know its mean, its not fair to judge him by his looks, but he...
Thank you everyone for stopping by and taking a moment to read our (long) story.
Iam crying again right now because this little ginger man has touched so many people in some way and I am almost a little bit proud.
He loved to get allll the attention, so I hope this makes purr a bit