Recent Content by Oatmilk

Hi guys, not the update I want to write, but just wanted to put this out here in case it helps someone in the future. We have done a few more face to face meetings (along with daily room swapping and seeing eachother through the gate). Unfortunately every single time ended in aggressive fights...

thanks for this, I really appreciate it. We ordered a more structured gate (we were using a mesh screen) so hopefully that will offer more protection from fluffy jumping at it!

Ugh. Fluffy accidentally got out and they tumbled down the stairs in a brawl, and gooby peed from being so scared. This whole process is so discouraging :bawling2:

It's really hard to get Gooby distracted with play but usually will get distracted for a few seconds at a time with a string toy. Fluffy is a bit easier to distract with play (either with a string toy or this toy pickle that she loves chasing after). Gooby ultimately prefers to watch Fluffy...

Oh also, we recently got feliway diffusers, which definitely have been helping Goobys growling. But has not affected Fluffy doing that

This is going to be a long one, but I'm just feeling so lost! Hopefully someone can help!! I found Gooby under a car when he was about 3 months old, and took him in. That was a bit over two years ago, so he is now around 2.5 years old. My boyfriend and I have moved in together since then, and...