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    Missing Feral Cat -- How do I handle this?

    I honestly did not want to post here again, at least not at this stage, since Jcatbird and trudy1 were so supportive and encouraging in their posts and since I have no good news to report. But this forum has been a godsend to me, as I believe that no one in my actual life truly understands the...
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    Missing Feral Cat -- How do I handle this?

    In the end, what provides the most comfort is the idea that we are put where we are to help these cats for as long as we're meant to. Some things are not in our control (including our getting too attached to many of them). I loved every single one of my ferals and will never forget them. I would...
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    Missing Feral Cat -- How do I handle this?

    Trudy1, thanks for your heartwarming message. It brought tears to my eyes all over again. I went back to read your story and saw what a horrible ordeal you went through as well. My last remaining feral was with me from the beginning. As I write this, I'm looking at the spot on my windowsill...
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    Missing Feral Cat -- How do I handle this?

    Jcatbird, thanks so much for your words of encouragement. It's been difficult since there's really no one else in real life who I think understands how hard this all is. I was supposed to have family visit this weekend, but when I realized my last regular feral was gone, I had to ask them to...
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    Missing Feral Cat -- How do I handle this?

    I'm in the middle of a terrible weekend, and, turning to this forum for some comfort, stumbled upon this thread that I last commented on three and a half years ago (I'm the same user as immediately above, but couldn't get into my old account, so had to create this new one to post). This week...
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