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good evening everyone,
I've posted about this a couple times before. I have a cat who's been biting me for as long as I've had her. (4 weeks old) She's just over a year old now and I know that she's still young and that she can grow out of it but I can't take it anymore. I feel like I've tried everything in the books to get her to stop and nothing will phase her. It's like she just hates me. I've listened to all the advice that was given to me: hissing at her, doing time outs, avoiding her, I take her outside 30 minutes a day on a leash and I play with her for another 30 minutes right before I go to bed.
I feel like I'm making no progress whatsoever. It's completely embarrassing having guests over and my cat comes over and bites them for no reason. She will even bite my dog. It also doesn't help that she draws blood part of the time.. tonight surprised me by biting my skin and I accidentally pushed her over on the carpet. This made her mad and I knew she would be so I didn't reach over to comfort her since I knew she would attack me. She just came back over and bit me harder and drew blood.
I've gone to the vet and expressed my concerns. She came back with a clean bill of health and hey prescribed gabapentin, but it didn't seem to do a difference.
I'm sitting in my bedroom just crying because I am so frustrated. This is my first cat that I've owned by myself and I've never had a family cat do this. I'll never get rid of her, but I just feel unloved and that I failed as a cat mom. I'll never, ever rehome her as I know that there are so many cats out there that need homes that she'll probably never find one with her attitude.
I'm dying to find a solution. I don't know what to do anymore and I'm heartbroken. Picture attached is what she did to me tonight.
I've posted about this a couple times before. I have a cat who's been biting me for as long as I've had her. (4 weeks old) She's just over a year old now and I know that she's still young and that she can grow out of it but I can't take it anymore. I feel like I've tried everything in the books to get her to stop and nothing will phase her. It's like she just hates me. I've listened to all the advice that was given to me: hissing at her, doing time outs, avoiding her, I take her outside 30 minutes a day on a leash and I play with her for another 30 minutes right before I go to bed.
I feel like I'm making no progress whatsoever. It's completely embarrassing having guests over and my cat comes over and bites them for no reason. She will even bite my dog. It also doesn't help that she draws blood part of the time.. tonight surprised me by biting my skin and I accidentally pushed her over on the carpet. This made her mad and I knew she would be so I didn't reach over to comfort her since I knew she would attack me. She just came back over and bit me harder and drew blood.
I've gone to the vet and expressed my concerns. She came back with a clean bill of health and hey prescribed gabapentin, but it didn't seem to do a difference.
I'm sitting in my bedroom just crying because I am so frustrated. This is my first cat that I've owned by myself and I've never had a family cat do this. I'll never get rid of her, but I just feel unloved and that I failed as a cat mom. I'll never, ever rehome her as I know that there are so many cats out there that need homes that she'll probably never find one with her attitude.
I'm dying to find a solution. I don't know what to do anymore and I'm heartbroken. Picture attached is what she did to me tonight.
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