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I'm so lonely because I had to put down the cat I had FOREVER. He was my baby.
I have another one that I've had half as long, but my relationship with her is so different. I can't help wanting to get another cat that I can be closer to. It needs to be a cat that is as lazy as me, lazier than she is, like my other cat was. And that will always be there to cuddle with me. It's fine if I have to bond with the new cat before that starts happening. But I'm bonded with my current cat and that's just not her personality. So I'm worried the new cat will be like that too.
So how do I find the RIGHT cat for me? I know I can never replace Oliver and what he was to me. But I need that role of cuddle-buddy filled, at least. Should I get a kitten? I had Oliver since he was a kitten and that's why we were so close, I guess, compared to me and BB. I want a cat with medium or long coat though, I think that would be extra comfy to cuddle.
I have another one that I've had half as long, but my relationship with her is so different. I can't help wanting to get another cat that I can be closer to. It needs to be a cat that is as lazy as me, lazier than she is, like my other cat was. And that will always be there to cuddle with me. It's fine if I have to bond with the new cat before that starts happening. But I'm bonded with my current cat and that's just not her personality. So I'm worried the new cat will be like that too.
So how do I find the RIGHT cat for me? I know I can never replace Oliver and what he was to me. But I need that role of cuddle-buddy filled, at least. Should I get a kitten? I had Oliver since he was a kitten and that's why we were so close, I guess, compared to me and BB. I want a cat with medium or long coat though, I think that would be extra comfy to cuddle.