Nothing can be said to lessen the pain of losing a loved one, but having friends to lean on and for support helps us to get back on our feet.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your little girl. I'm so happy for her though that she found you to care for her and love her. Very few would have given her...
She is diplaying a from of overstimulation syndrome, which i have seen in quite a few of my cats, all females. so acting like this is not unknown to me! They strike out with no warning when they get overstimulated, and if she is fearful and anxious, that may be often! If she was kicked and...
You saved her, and she, in return, gave your life so much........God has always said we will be happy in heaven, and complete, so if your loved ones make you happy you will be with them again. Every living creature that draws a breathe has a soul, "Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not...
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Arthur has such a strong face. A typical ragdoll face! It sounds like you are atking it slow and easy, that is what it takes to integrate cats and to transition them indoors. You are definitely right to want them...
@Kwik,I'm so glad your surgery went well, bask in the soothing vibes of your clowder!
I have to smile every time I think of the little girl I have right now when she was an outside cat. She would intimidate the huge feral males that came into eat. She's barely 7 lbs, they were at least 18lbs...
She smelled him in that blanket and marked it as her own. No mistake. There is nothing wrong with hissing and swatting. That is totally normal , especially for a female, who live to teach manners and set limits. I think everything is going great! Let them work it out, it will happen, good work!
i like guacamole, nachos and salsa. But if you make the guac right, with lots of grated onion and garlic, that is definitely my favorite. I don't make it much lately because of the calories, even though I know it has 'good' fats. I need to lose some weight!
A special 4th Happy Gotchday to my LC, Little Chrissy, who is lovingly nicknamed stubby because of her short legs compared to her longlegged children. She showed up a kitten in July of 2020, a tiny fluff of fur that was rarely seen, when we were remodeling our present home out in the country...
I hope you do, we'd love to read it.....I hope you can focus on the good memories of your precious boy. It is what he would want for those he loves. Go forward into the future and live it as you would want for him if you were the first to go, not in sadness, but finding new love to dwell...
Geez, I feel kinda backwards, I used a half filled half gallon milk container with a looong string tied on it to prop the door open. Then I waited until the right cat went in and pulled the string. Worked great butr a remote control woukld have been a lot easier!
Of course she will be greatly missed, she was a huge part of your life for a good many years. Time is the only thing that helps, and sometimes it takes a lot of it. Remember, love is spiritual, so eternal, she will occupy a part of your soul forever. Eventually your grief will turn into...