After typing it out, I realize the question sounds rather silly. Or maybe it doesn't?
My partner has his heart set on getting a kitten. And right now, there's honestly nothing stopping us besides a few of my own hesitations. We're in a place where we have time/space/money to add an additional cat to the household. Our son is finally old enough to really understand animals (10). But, personally, I'd prefer adopting a slightly older cat. My partner, on the other hand, has never gotten to experience owning a cat (or dog for that matter) since it was a wee baby and it's something he'd really like to do now that we're capable.
My questions - 1. Will some kittens just grow up to be meaner no matter how they're raised? Currently we have one cat and one dog. Both are extremely animal friendly, we've pet sat for friends/family, they travel with us, etc. I don't think they'll be throwing a welcome home party to any new animal but I'm confident after an adjustment period that they'd get along. My worry is that with a kitten...it's hard to predict their behavior as they become an adult cat. Is it possible we get a kitten, get attached, love it, but it grows up to just be one of those cats that are extra....well, cat.-like. I want another cat that is friendly and I feel like adopting an older cat will assure the right temperament but I'm not so sure getting a kitten will.
Other question - 2. Do some cats just never get along with dogs? Our dog is an 85lb giant but she's gentle and while I don't so much worry about her reaction, is it possible a new kitten just never warms up to a dog? Obviously, like I said, there will be an adjustment period for any new animal but is it possible that some cats just never like dogs no matter what?
Question 3 - I've read a lot that sometimes getting 2 kittens at once is better than a singleton. Is this something that's extremely important? We could handle two (other than my previously stated reservations) but I'm not sure if it's necessary. My cat right now is four years old and honestly, she loves anything with a pulse. We even had to puppy sit my sister's dog once (when it was still a puppy-puppy) and if she could deal with that crazy I think she'd be fine with a kitten in terms of playing and helping it to learn any manners it might need.
TL;DR - Is getting a kitten instead of an older cat a huge gamble in terms of temperament?
Thanks for reading this novel and I apologize if I posted my question in the wrong place.
My partner has his heart set on getting a kitten. And right now, there's honestly nothing stopping us besides a few of my own hesitations. We're in a place where we have time/space/money to add an additional cat to the household. Our son is finally old enough to really understand animals (10). But, personally, I'd prefer adopting a slightly older cat. My partner, on the other hand, has never gotten to experience owning a cat (or dog for that matter) since it was a wee baby and it's something he'd really like to do now that we're capable.
My questions - 1. Will some kittens just grow up to be meaner no matter how they're raised? Currently we have one cat and one dog. Both are extremely animal friendly, we've pet sat for friends/family, they travel with us, etc. I don't think they'll be throwing a welcome home party to any new animal but I'm confident after an adjustment period that they'd get along. My worry is that with a kitten...it's hard to predict their behavior as they become an adult cat. Is it possible we get a kitten, get attached, love it, but it grows up to just be one of those cats that are extra....well, cat.-like. I want another cat that is friendly and I feel like adopting an older cat will assure the right temperament but I'm not so sure getting a kitten will.
Other question - 2. Do some cats just never get along with dogs? Our dog is an 85lb giant but she's gentle and while I don't so much worry about her reaction, is it possible a new kitten just never warms up to a dog? Obviously, like I said, there will be an adjustment period for any new animal but is it possible that some cats just never like dogs no matter what?
Question 3 - I've read a lot that sometimes getting 2 kittens at once is better than a singleton. Is this something that's extremely important? We could handle two (other than my previously stated reservations) but I'm not sure if it's necessary. My cat right now is four years old and honestly, she loves anything with a pulse. We even had to puppy sit my sister's dog once (when it was still a puppy-puppy) and if she could deal with that crazy I think she'd be fine with a kitten in terms of playing and helping it to learn any manners it might need.
TL;DR - Is getting a kitten instead of an older cat a huge gamble in terms of temperament?
Thanks for reading this novel and I apologize if I posted my question in the wrong place.