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Hello,
I found a 4 week old kitten in the city (he is 7 weeks old now and very healthy!)
I have owned cats my whole life, as well as my husband who grew up with a few as well as tended to strays.
Anyway, the reason for my post...
My husband and I go away often because of our jobs.
We were called away to North Carolina a few weeks ago and we had our friend's pre-teen daughter come and watch the kitty (Winston).
When we came home, Winston was acting a little odd....it only lasted about a day so I was not super concerned at first.
He had a little lump on his head, which set a few alarm bells off to me.
So my husband and i were called away again, this time to Canada and we were leaving for 10 days.
I wanted to trust our friend's daughter, and my husband said the lump could have came from anywhere, but to appease my maternal paranoia we moved one of our security cameras to the 'cat room' where Winston stays while we are not at home.
It is a big room with windows and a bathroom for his litter tray, etc.
So...we come home and Winston is acting REALLY off...so we watch the video..what we saw was awful.
This girl was fine with him until one day they were playing and he bit her (like kittens do). We told her to not allow him to bite hard, because mommy and litter mates never really had a chance to teach him manners, he plays a bit rough sometimes. We told her to gently blow at him and re-direct his attention to a toy.
NEVER hit.
So...Winston bites her. First she picked him up high and it looked like she was yelling. She slammed him down on the bed about 5 times. She rolled him in the blanket and shook it violently. She then let him out to run away from her, only to yank him back hit him more and did what appeared to be scream into his ear. She brought him into the bathroom and was vigorously rubbing food into his face (its a wet/dry combo) he was shaking his poor head everywhere and she held his head and was GRINDING the food all over his head and face. She then shoved him into a corner and it looked like she was yelling more as she swat at him. She must have felt like now he was filthy with food all over him, so she put him in the sink and roughly soaked him with water. When she was drying him, she kept squeezing and shaking him inside the towel HARD. she held him up, wet and terrified up towards the ceiling and dropped him. she took him back into the bathroom and threw him into his litter tray. Then she threw him into the tub and held him above the toilet while she flushed the food that was all over the floor from rubbing it all over his head.
Sorry for the bad grammar/spelling. it is difficult for me to even type this, let alone re-live it in my head.
So when my husband and I saw this, naturally, we called her mother. After viewing it her mother was in tears. She begged us not to call the police, told us she would handle her daughter...there is more happening with the consequences of this nasty young ladies actions, however, my question is about my kitten.
He is being sweet to my husband and I, he is playful, follows us around and he still sleeps on me and purrs. He paces around mewing at me as usual, and has not missed his litter tray or avoided his food bowl.
Is it possible he will walk away from this even unscathed? He has nothing physically wrong with him (we took him to the vet right away to check for broken bones/bruises-nothing!)
It just seemed to me like SUCH a traumatic event for him to not even be bothered by it. When the girl came over to our house to apologize, give back the money we had paid her for watching him + vet bill, etc. Winston even walked around her purring!!!! He let her pick him up and kiss him and say she was sorry. That will be the last time she ever sees him, but I could not believe he allowed her near him.
Is this normal for a kitten? does he just have really bad memory? Don't get me wrong, we are SO happy he is not brain damaged or ruined because of this, but he genuinely seems OK, thank God.
*note-I know people will be upset about this event. I will not give out any personal details about the girl. She has and will continue to pay the price for what she has done by terms that I, her mother and the police decided were fair and just. She has been dealt with and will, hopefully, not ever abuse another small animal again*
I found a 4 week old kitten in the city (he is 7 weeks old now and very healthy!)
I have owned cats my whole life, as well as my husband who grew up with a few as well as tended to strays.
Anyway, the reason for my post...
My husband and I go away often because of our jobs.
We were called away to North Carolina a few weeks ago and we had our friend's pre-teen daughter come and watch the kitty (Winston).
When we came home, Winston was acting a little odd....it only lasted about a day so I was not super concerned at first.
He had a little lump on his head, which set a few alarm bells off to me.
So my husband and i were called away again, this time to Canada and we were leaving for 10 days.
I wanted to trust our friend's daughter, and my husband said the lump could have came from anywhere, but to appease my maternal paranoia we moved one of our security cameras to the 'cat room' where Winston stays while we are not at home.
It is a big room with windows and a bathroom for his litter tray, etc.
So...we come home and Winston is acting REALLY off...so we watch the video..what we saw was awful.
This girl was fine with him until one day they were playing and he bit her (like kittens do). We told her to not allow him to bite hard, because mommy and litter mates never really had a chance to teach him manners, he plays a bit rough sometimes. We told her to gently blow at him and re-direct his attention to a toy.
NEVER hit.
So...Winston bites her. First she picked him up high and it looked like she was yelling. She slammed him down on the bed about 5 times. She rolled him in the blanket and shook it violently. She then let him out to run away from her, only to yank him back hit him more and did what appeared to be scream into his ear. She brought him into the bathroom and was vigorously rubbing food into his face (its a wet/dry combo) he was shaking his poor head everywhere and she held his head and was GRINDING the food all over his head and face. She then shoved him into a corner and it looked like she was yelling more as she swat at him. She must have felt like now he was filthy with food all over him, so she put him in the sink and roughly soaked him with water. When she was drying him, she kept squeezing and shaking him inside the towel HARD. she held him up, wet and terrified up towards the ceiling and dropped him. she took him back into the bathroom and threw him into his litter tray. Then she threw him into the tub and held him above the toilet while she flushed the food that was all over the floor from rubbing it all over his head.
Sorry for the bad grammar/spelling. it is difficult for me to even type this, let alone re-live it in my head.
So when my husband and I saw this, naturally, we called her mother. After viewing it her mother was in tears. She begged us not to call the police, told us she would handle her daughter...there is more happening with the consequences of this nasty young ladies actions, however, my question is about my kitten.
He is being sweet to my husband and I, he is playful, follows us around and he still sleeps on me and purrs. He paces around mewing at me as usual, and has not missed his litter tray or avoided his food bowl.
Is it possible he will walk away from this even unscathed? He has nothing physically wrong with him (we took him to the vet right away to check for broken bones/bruises-nothing!)
It just seemed to me like SUCH a traumatic event for him to not even be bothered by it. When the girl came over to our house to apologize, give back the money we had paid her for watching him + vet bill, etc. Winston even walked around her purring!!!! He let her pick him up and kiss him and say she was sorry. That will be the last time she ever sees him, but I could not believe he allowed her near him.
Is this normal for a kitten? does he just have really bad memory? Don't get me wrong, we are SO happy he is not brain damaged or ruined because of this, but he genuinely seems OK, thank God.
*note-I know people will be upset about this event. I will not give out any personal details about the girl. She has and will continue to pay the price for what she has done by terms that I, her mother and the police decided were fair and just. She has been dealt with and will, hopefully, not ever abuse another small animal again*