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When she moved in, she came with two cats. (a mama and her baby). The cats adored her, and whenever they heard her voice they ran down the stairs to greet her. But she is losing the bond with them. She is never here. She is seemingly not concerned about losing the bond. She is only concerned with her boyfriend. She stays over there all the time. Her cats have adopted me. I am a home body, and my two cats are my world. So now I have 4 cats in my room because they are lonely. Now when she comes home, not only do they not run to greet her, she has to drag them into her room. They try to escape and run back into my room. It breaks my heart when I think how much they adored her, I want to tell her a bf will break her heart, but a pets' love is the one thing you can always count on. But this relationship needs to be nutured. I'm really upset about this situation. Do you have any thoughts. She is 47 years old. She is my roommate. I am a 59 year old man, btw.