Hello. My cat Wayla died last Thursday, she was 17 years old. My other cat, Randy, is 13. Wayla has always been here, Randy has never been a cat alone before.
They never really got along. Sometimes when they were younger, we'd come home and catch them cuddling, and Wayla would be embarrassed and move when we saw her. Randy bullied Wayla a lot, we had to keep a close eye on that, especially when Wayla got sick.
Now that Wayla is dead, Randy has been acting out of sorts. She wanders around a lot, like she is looking for her. She sniffs every place that Wayla would hang out. She gets upset that Wayla's food bowl isn't there. Chow time has always been the happiest time for Randy, and we had to fight to keep her from eating Wayla's. Now it just seems sad to Randy.
What can we do to make her feel better?
We told her that Wayla died, and she won't be coming back. She seemed to understand. She knows Mom and I are really upset, and she is trying to do double duty, sitting on both of our laps, comforting us both. We're afraid she's going to wear herself out. She has always had a set nap time, and she still naps like she always did. But then she also seems to be trying to make sure we aren't mistaken, and spends time looking for Wayla.
If something scary happened (Randy has always been the scaredy one) she would hide behind Wayla and wait for her to check it out. I went shopping the other day, and Mom said while I was gone, a noise scared her, and she didn't know what to do.
Can I do anything to make this easier for her?
Thanks.
They never really got along. Sometimes when they were younger, we'd come home and catch them cuddling, and Wayla would be embarrassed and move when we saw her. Randy bullied Wayla a lot, we had to keep a close eye on that, especially when Wayla got sick.
Now that Wayla is dead, Randy has been acting out of sorts. She wanders around a lot, like she is looking for her. She sniffs every place that Wayla would hang out. She gets upset that Wayla's food bowl isn't there. Chow time has always been the happiest time for Randy, and we had to fight to keep her from eating Wayla's. Now it just seems sad to Randy.
What can we do to make her feel better?
We told her that Wayla died, and she won't be coming back. She seemed to understand. She knows Mom and I are really upset, and she is trying to do double duty, sitting on both of our laps, comforting us both. We're afraid she's going to wear herself out. She has always had a set nap time, and she still naps like she always did. But then she also seems to be trying to make sure we aren't mistaken, and spends time looking for Wayla.
If something scary happened (Randy has always been the scaredy one) she would hide behind Wayla and wait for her to check it out. I went shopping the other day, and Mom said while I was gone, a noise scared her, and she didn't know what to do.
Can I do anything to make this easier for her?
Thanks.